22goingon6 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Hi everyone, Last week I met a girl in a completely random situation, and was so intrigued that I worked up the courage to just ask her out and got her number -- which is crazy for me. That was on a Tuesday. I called her on Thursday & left a message. She texted me later on and we texted for a couple hours. All nice and fun. Friday night she initiated texting with me, and had an enjoyable convo that night too. It ended however basically when I asked her if she wanted to go out Sunday night, but she asked for a rain check. She had a perfectly 100% legit reason, but I still woulda felt a little better had she suggested something else. Over the next week we continued talking. Not every single day, but most. She started the convo on a night early the next week, which was awesome, but as the week went on I found myself maybe starting more of them. Then Friday night was a rather weak conversation, which basically ended with me not answering right away to a short response from her, then her not answering my response. I try to remind myself to stay out of the "games," and all that crap texting. Like she very well coulda just been busy last night and I overreacted, but who knows. She usually seems very interested and sends relatively thoughtful texts. It's hard not to think that something I may have said or done through the week could have turned her off to me. Eventually though I'd love to have a chance to communicate in person and take her out on a date. When should I ask her out again? I'd like to somewhat soon, but I also feel like I should build up our friendship a bit to increase my chances of getting a yes, cause this could be my last shot. An ideas what to do? Thank you
Lansing Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Stop with the texting! Just text her and say something like "What does your week look like next week? " or something and go for the date. Forget texting her just to "Chat"... that is annoying as heck for most people especially if you haven't gone out yet. 4
d0nnivain Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Call her & ask her to do something with you. 1
MalachiX Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Call or move on. Some women are initially interested but loose interest if you don't talk on the phone or meet up soon. Some also just like the attention without any really interest in dating. These may be the case here so you may just want to ignore her and seek out someone else. If you REALLY want to give it another go then call her up and give it one last try.
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