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My boyfriend of two years has given me the silent treatment for a week now.

 

He is going through a very dark time in his life and has made major life decisions (moving to a different state) without involving or discussing with me. I have repeatedly pressed him for answers for which he does not have (or does not want to share with me). Our last communication (last Friday) was via text where things got a little heated. He did not answer the phone when I called and instead texted me back saying that speaking about our issues before bed causes him to stay up all night. I responded that not speaking about it keeps me up all night. He said that we would speak in the morning. He had been out of town for a few weeks and was supposed to return home but extended his trip.

 

I left him alone for a few days and attempted contact again on Sunday. I sent several texts and called him twice. At this point, I was panicking. He has never iced me out like that before. On Monday, I again attempted to call him several times. I asked if this silence meant he needed space or if he wanted to break up. He finally responded later that afternoon with two texts. One saying he was sorry and the the other saying he did not want to talk because he didn't want to get yelled at by me. I thanked him for responding to me. On Wednesday, he sent me an email with the following link: He said he was leaving. She ignored him. - The Week. I left him alone for a few more days and once again attempted contact today.

 

I feel so lost and terribly sad. I have no clue what's going on. We live together and all of his belongings are still here. Am I to assume this relationship is over? He has not told me anything - that he needs space or we're broken up or to leave him alone. Just two texts and a link to an article that makes me more confused. Help!

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Whatever it is, do what you want.

I was the one who need space, i was running out of town for 2 weeks to make a decision of my life. I didnt care about my gf at that time.

And after 2 weeks, im back, she showed she was happy, but she wasn't. The best thing is, she keep texting me even i didnt reply in that 2 weeks. That help me a little bit to survival but not important. The worst thing is, she told my friend that she was really upset and wanted to dump me.

2 years later, she now in other country and she told me she need space. But i found out that she was meeting someone else in that time to share her emotional. After a month of limited contact, i made the decision to let her go even i still love her. I saw that, she need that boy more than me and they are happy together, so i did the best for her. 2 years to now, they are really happy.

So, no matter what you do, things happen. Limited contact, no contact,... That not depend on. Just do what you want. Miss him, send a text. Love him, go find him. Not him who decide your relationship status, that is your call!

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