Beatnik Posted December 24, 2004 Posted December 24, 2004 OK so after an extraordinarly bad day I was walking to my car after work and ended up getting into a conversation with another employee. Well once we got to our cars we kept on talking and she apologized for talking my ear off, and asked if I was freezing because I wasnt wearing a coat. So I asked if she wanted to go get some coffee and keep talking, which she excitedly agreed too. So we go and shes telling me about her tastes in music, and things she been through in her life, and the kinda of future shes wanting, etc. Then we leave and go back to my apartment and listen to some music for a while, and its then that she just barely mentions the fact that shes engaged! So I'm thinking: "Huh?" Then she gives me her number and goes home. What do you guys make of this?
blind_otter Posted December 24, 2004 Posted December 24, 2004 I don't know. If she's enganged, I hope not. I hang out and meet new people all the time without necessarily wanting to jump their bones. But if you're confused, clear it up and don't be spaztic about it.
Barby Posted December 24, 2004 Posted December 24, 2004 I say that her giving you her number was kinda odd since she is engaged... I wouldn't make anything of it though, I would hope once she mentioned that she is in another relationship that for you that would be a big red flag saying "hey this girl is off limits" even if she's interested in you.
alphamale Posted December 24, 2004 Posted December 24, 2004 this was not a date cause it was not pre-arranged. she is engaged, end of story. she just needed someone to talk to...women are like that.
Author Beatnik Posted December 24, 2004 Author Posted December 24, 2004 Well it's not like I'm crazy about this girl or anything, I just met her. I have other prospects, I was just curious about this one. I'm perfectly cool with just being friends.
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