How often do you talk to your MM/MW?

[megamommy]

So, I was having an affair with a friend for 3 months, we have since decided to end it and stay strictly platonic. In which time we have spoken every single day with the exception of him being home from work at the same time of his wife.

 

After ending it, we still talk, daily, I still consider it to be an emotional affair.

 

 

How often do you get to talk to your affair partner??

 

I feel lucky that we talk as often as we do.

[LilGirlandOW]

We spoke daily from good morning to goodnight, no matter what was going on in each others lives, like vacations or whatnot.

[Phoe]

my ex EA partner had very sporadic times when he would seem to drop off the face of the earth.

 

Most of the time he'd text me throughout the day and then we'd talk via AIM in the evenings. It was rare that things werent like this.

 

 

But during the times that he'd disappear? A week or 2 at a time. And I knew where he was and what he was doing, and yes, it was a busy time. But he couldn't pull the phone out when he was in the bathroom and shoot me a text saying hi? Really?

 

 

It always happened during the holidays when he'd go out of state with his girlfriend to visit family.

 

 

And he knows I am okay with a day or two of noncontact when things get hectic. But 2 weeks without a single hello? Pfft.

 

 

Remembering things like this helps me realize that he didn't care as much as I thought. It's good to realize so I can move past him

[Got it]

We talked multiple times a day, every day.

[whereamigoing]

During the affair we talked daily to every other day. Texted frequently as well as emails. We kept on each others' day to day goings on.

[thecharade]

24/7. But he still stayed M.

[megamommy]

It's nice to be able to talk to him daily, no matter what is going on. If we don't talk it's because he's busy and he does have a very very active life. I won't hear from him until Sunday more than likely. As he's going out of town for work so he is probably busy doing the whole "family" thing, spending as much time with his son as possible before he leaves.

 

 

 

I feel lucky that I don't have to be one of those woman that is always wondering when I will hear from him, especially now that the "affair has ended" in his mind. It seems he's MORE available to me now that we are not putting a label on it.

[Cdngirl5279]

We talked 24/7 as well, no matter what was going on....my vacation, his vacation. We were the first phone call in the morning, and the last call before we went to sleep. Thankfully I haven't woken up and reached for the phone right away out of habit in about 2 weeks.....

[GatsbyMH]

We work together so we talk at work and have lunch together. Phone talk when she can but its rare on the weekends. Mostly we text all day. When she can. That's getting tough too.

[OldRover]

Call 3 or 4 times a day, text often.

[goodyblue]

Always first call in the morning, last call at night. Lots of texting and three or four calls in between. We kept one another in the loop of our daily goings on. Now that we live together... we see one another a lot more, and the phone calls are in person chats. Still the sane amount of calls/texts during the day.

[HugeSigh]

We used to talk on the way to work, on the way home from work, throughout the day. He'd sometimes sneak away to text to say goodnight, but eventually we decided that he needed to stop doing that.

[Effy149]

I see him at school during the week, but we speak as friends and colleagues while at school. We have occasional flirty moments, but we never speak sexually to each other at school.

 

The texting became less frequent since the affair started, I'll hear from him once or twice over the weekend. Unfortunately they are usually sexts while he's drinking.

[solostand]

Two to eight times a day. We saw each other this morning and when he left he called me from the truck phone and we talked for an hour. I expect a call this afternoon.

Even when he was in the hospital he called me every morning and every evening.

[BrookeRL]

We talk 4 times a day, and we text and email each other a lot, day and night.

[megamommy]

This is awesome!! I'm so happy everyone gets steady contact with their AP!