siwellbr Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 OK, My girlfriend of 4 years in May 2004 said that she wanted space and I acted like a clown, totally lost all the self-respect (at least that's what I thought at the time), and acted like a wimp. The only reason I did this is because she wouldn't tell me how she felt and I thought I deserved a reason after 4 years of time with this chic. Monday December 21, 2004: She tells me that I wasn't a man, and that she needed someone with more manly qualities. She goes off and tells me how dump and stupid I was and said some of the worse things to me to totally take away ALL OF MY SELF-ESTEEM. I was really low guys. Tuesday December 22, 2004 10:00 am She calls and tells me that she is going out of town and that she would talk to me on Thursday because she was going to clear her head and think about if she wanted to be with me or not. I agreed that she needs to take time to herself, but I'm still pretty hurt by what she told me on Monday. Wednesday December 23, 2004 6:00pm My buddy and I go to the mall to finish christmas shopping and I ran into a former friend from high school and he said that he just saw my girlfriend. I thought she was out of town in Austin. Once again she has lied and I have caught her. HERE IS THE CATCH: She felt so stupid for being caught in a lie that she just humiliated herself and caused her friends were asking why is she acting to silly right now (they didn't know she was lying)? By the way I'm 23 and she's 21. Then she goes on to ask if we are still together and are we buying each other gifts for christmas. I kept really cool and said "yea we are together and yea we can buy presents for each other." I could have been like "Hell no you liar" and then somehow she would have turn the tables and then all this would have been my fault. I graduated from high school in '99, and since it's Christmas season all of my old friends where in the mall that day, and while we were talking 5 girls from high schoool past by and said: "Wow Charles is that you?! You look so good, wow you have really become a MAN!!" "You look so well rounded and intelligent now" I was getting compliments all that time we were talking, and she hated that because 2 days prior she was telling me how much of a man that i was not and how much of a wimp I was. DUMPEES: Don't listen to anything that the person dumping you is saying. YOUR EX IS NOT BETTER THAN YOU! They are confused, not you! They don't know what they want, they are the liars, they don't care about your feelings. One thing that I always do is I listen to love songs and pretend I am singing the song to my next love, not this clown, screw her she doesn't deserve this love. I'm in love with being in love, but not in love with you!!
tokyo Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 Originally posted by siwellbr One thing that I always do is I listen to love songs and pretend I am singing the song to my next love, not this clown, screw her she doesn't deserve this love. That made me laugh that you called her a clown. Silly little kids
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