Mascara Posted December 20, 2013 Posted December 20, 2013 Well OP it's very simple. He wants to keep you as an option for when he's bored. He does not want to date you or develop a relationship with you. 2
Author ldrgirl000 Posted December 22, 2013 Author Posted December 22, 2013 You are so damn afraid of hearing "no" that it practically paralyzes you. You twist and manipulate every situation so that you don't have to really put yourself out there. Crap, I've been flat out meanly reject 100 times a month by women. Straight up rejected for reasons that are silly, reasons that don't exist, and reasons that hurt like a knife wound. Grow a pair of ovaries and just be straight about this stuff. You can't go through life curled up in a ball sucking your thumb. Be brave, be bold, be honest. Also... Two massively passive aggressive people should not get together. This time, I did say i have feelings for him. His flirtations were provocative but he said he is very busy. He just wants me to like him and probably he expects me to wait around until he asks me out. I feel quite sad because he acts like a teenager boy. Even men, who are after one and only one thing, make an effort to take me out first before they show their real intentions.
MalachiX Posted December 22, 2013 Posted December 22, 2013 These new developments indicates he's trying to play you. If you actually said you have feelings for him and invited him on a date, then that's it. If he's flirting but saying vague things like "whatever happens," then it means that he WANTS to keep this in a gray area. He wants to be in a place where something happens that he can later pretend was an accident between friends. He's also probably assuming (perhaps rightly); that making you chase him will give him some power. I'd say stop flirting with this guy completely. It's not going to go well. At best it's going to be a hook-up. Forgot everything that happened before. If he doesn't want to really date you now then there's no point in continuing this; whether you like him or not.
Author ldrgirl000 Posted January 30, 2014 Author Posted January 30, 2014 Hi guys, I'm not so lucky with dating recently. I have been seeing some guys but nothing turns out well. Some asked me out but I don't want to be more than friends with them. I want another chance with this guy because he shuts me out. There is one guy, friend of a guy in my tennis team, we were all chatting in groups on Facebook to discuss some training for February. So he added me later on. For the first two weeks, he acted as if he was so so into me, He wrote me long emails, texts, wants to call me. I felt uncomfortable at the beginning because it's so unreal to write so much to someone I haven't met. I believe he is a nice and decent guy. He is desperate to get married. He got me convinced that we should email more before we decided to meet. The one day, I decided to text him first but he replied very slow. A few days later, he told me a girl he used to flirt suddenly got back in touch with him and he still have feelings for her, that I am a great girl and he friendzoned me. I cant believe I was the back up girl the whole time. So he must have been waiting for this girl to get back to him. I was so confident because I am kind of smart, pretty and funny. I cant find a reason why a guy like him could not like me.
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