Ryman Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Hey, so my friend(who has a gf) calls me before this party Im throwing saying hes gonna "hook me up" and hes bringing his pretty coworker. I say cool, but was thinking **** cause I really need a haircut, didnt think I was gonna try anything but when they got here she was pretty so I thought what the hell. A few of us including her went to buy more beer and she seemed to be hanging around me and talking to me the whole time at the store and in the car about where shes from and all, cool chick. Then back at my place I overhear her say shes terrible at beer pong, has never won, and has never made a shot. On the other hand Ive never lost at beer pong lol, so I took the chance and teamed with her. What do you know we end up going 4-0 lol. Hugging after every make, and touching the whole time, eventually we were just holding each other around the waist. Afterwards everyones in a circle talking and I was the only one without a chair. She was the only one that was like "concerned" I didnt have a chair, giving me ideas and actively scanning the room for one, at one point offering her chair and shell sit on a basketball lol, of couse I said no Im fine. As she was leaving I stopped her and asked for her number and she said sure and typed it into my phone for me. After she was gone my other friends were telling me she was pretty into me but I was too tipsy to judge. Anyways Im throwing another party this Saturday and my friends bringing her again. Im just wondering, should I shoot for a similar night and then ask her out next week, or go for more this weekend and ask her out anyway? She cant stay over or anything Saturday, she works Sunday afternoon. Thanks guys!
madjac74 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Sigh! I miss being young and clueless. Not sure you will lose either way. Good luck! 1
LovelyLamb Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Anyways Im throwing another party this Saturday and my friends bringing her again. Im just wondering, should I shoot for a similar night and then ask her out next week, or go for more this weekend and ask her out anyway? She cant stay over or anything Saturday, she works Sunday afternoon. I feel dumb for asking this, but what do you mean about "shooting for a similar night?" or go for this weekend? I think regardless of what you do, she'll probably go out with you since she made it pretty evident that she's into you. I say the sooner the better though.
Author Ryman Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 I feel dumb for asking this, but what do you mean about "shooting for a similar night?" or go for this weekend? I think regardless of what you do, she'll probably go out with you since she made it pretty evident that she's into you. I say the sooner the better though. I mean like just keep talking to her, messing with her and keeping it mutually touchy-feely but staying there until asking her out next week? If it doesnt matter however..
LovelyLamb Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 I mean like just keep talking to her, messing with her and keeping it mutually touchy-feely but staying there until asking her out next week? If it doesnt matter however.. Ah, I see. In that case, sure. Take things slow and just flirt if you'd prefer and keep the suspense going on her side. It may be more fun that way for both of you. But, like I said, she'll probably say yes regardless.
d0nnivain Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Perhaps shoot her a quick text since you have her phone # telling her that you are excited she's coming to your party. Ask if she wants to be your beer pong partner again. I'd hug her hello when she arrives at your party. You should definitely continue to flirt with her during the party & at least try for a sweet kiss / peck good-bye. If there aren't enough chairs next time, have her sit on your lap, not a basketball. Stay a bit more sober this time.
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