renee2004 Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 I'm having significant troubles getting rid of a certain guy... we went out for about a year and it was really off and on and didn't work out.... now even though we are not together he still seems to have a warped notion that i'm still his and should still be faithfull to him. I think half the problem is that I don't want to lose him completely in fact I love spending time with him and talking to him on the phone but I just don't think that I could ever go out with him again after what happened in our relationship. When we went out he treated me terribly, he is one of those people that only wants what he doesn't have, so of course the fact I won't give in to him is making him want me even more, but I know should I go out with him again he would go back to treating me badly again. So does anyone have any advice on how to navigate this situation? How can I still be good friends with him, whilst also being able to get on with my own life without him getting upset when I meet someone else?!?
aFighter Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 I'd watch your back and take steps to keep this guy away from you. He sound wacko.
ziggue Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 Originally posted by renee2004 So does anyone have any advice on how to navigate this situation? How can I still be good friends with him, whilst also being able to get on with my own life without him getting upset when I meet someone else?!? This guy is never gonna change. No matter what kind of relationship you have with him. He is always gonna think that you are his and that you are still with him if you don't leave him alone. He is still gonna treat you the same even if you still remain friends with him. Don't even know why you are even considering that. . You had the chance too get rid of him completely when you two broke up. Maybe you are still in love with him and still want to hold onto him hoping he will change if you too remain friends? Things will only get worse when you find someone new. You don't want to jepordise somebody ele's safety in a new relationship because of your Ex. You don't want to complicate things in your life. This will happen if you don't get rid of this guy.
Author renee2004 Posted December 24, 2004 Author Posted December 24, 2004 Yeah i've been thinking about it a bit and I guess I won't be able to friends with him... and it will be for the best.. Thanks for your advice
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