Kmri365 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Disclaimer: I had another account but I forgot the password. Also, I don't know if this thread should be under "break up" but it is about an ex boyfriend. I posted here a few times about my break up with a now ex boyfriend, whom I dated for three years. Anyway long story short, dated for three years.. Long distance for a year and a half..his mommy passed away so I transferred to a college closer to our families.. we grew apart, him growing apart with drugs, me growing apart wanting a career.. Too many fights and one huge one that led him into the arms of the girl I was always worried about him hanging out with when we were long distance. It has been seven months since our "fall out." Three days after our "fall out" he started dating another girl. I only know this because he broke up with me through text by telling me he was with another girl. When we were still together, he had been living with his brother in an apartment they rented after their mommy passed away. My ex got kicked out by his brother because he was not helping pay rent. My ex moved into their dads house (we broke up a week later), but his father would not let his new girlfriend live there as well, so my ex moved into his new girlfriends moms house. I had a hard time because I was the one that was blindsided although I knew it would happen eventually, but I did a very good job getting over him and now I see our relationship nothing but a lesson learned in how to be in a healthy relationship, and now I have a new boyfriend. I became great with my ex boyfriends brothers ex girlfriend, and we've had a lot of fun. His brother and his ex girlfriend broke up about a week after we did. She started dating her ex again (my ex's brother) and I was happy to hear this because I always loved my ex's brother, but tonight I was supposed to help her babysit with her now bf who used to be her ex. She didn't need to babysit, but she told me she was going to a bar with her bf and my ex and my ex's girlfriend. I said "I'm gonna pass lol" and she said my ex doesn't want me there. She didn't say it like that specifically, but really?? I said to her first "ohh nvm lol another time" I only did because my new boyfriend is not in "cahoots." He kind of is, only because he knew what happened because we were friends before, but my ex's girlfriend used to be my best friend! I didn't go to the bar tonight simply because I felt it was not fair to my boyfriend, who was at work, and because I guess I wasn't perpared. But my ex was with his girlfriend and said "nooo way" even when she used to be my best friend?! Is this mature? Am I the crazy one? After seen months, why would he care to not see me this much??
Author Kmri365 Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 This was way longer than I thought sorry guys
Author Kmri365 Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 No one is answering. We were madly in love. Please help. I personally don't mind if I see him again even at a bar with his gf. I'm over it I just hope he's happy now. Ijdc. Why dnt he wanna see me? I feel it's immature. My new bf knows the whole story but he wnt have come cuzso much work. Idk
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