Pod81 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 So there was this girl I met on OKC a few months back. We went on 4 dates and things seemed to be going pretty well. Then, it was a struggle getting her to go on a 5th and she never responded to my last text. After that, I just chalked it up to lack of interest and never contacted her again. Fast forward 2 months later and she texted me how I was doing! What is going on here? I'm thinking she went on some dates with guys whom she was more attracted to which didn't work out. In other words, I have a feeling I'm a backup option. Your thoughts and how to proceed?
mammasita Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 You don't proceed.....unless you like being an option. 2
forgetmenot75 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 I wouldn't reply. delete. she'll probably do this to you again in the future. you were clearly not her first option. 1
Uwaae Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Why not just go out with her. Ask her why. DOnt put your heart into it
Author Pod81 Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 As it turns out, she got exclusive with some guy she met before me - just as I suspected. Oh well, case closed. Another typical OLD result - girl multi-dates while I'm competing against a handful of guys. Now, she wants to be "friends" or put me on the backburner. Online sucks and it's brutal. 1
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