greenfairie Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Hes amazing but I still cant get my ex off my mind now. I thought I was doing okay not thinking about my ex until my bf left the country for a few months. I dont know if I can handle this mentally and emotionally. If Im really not ready, then how do I bring myself to break up with him since we have already planned a vacation!?! My therapist is out of the country until next week so I definitely need support :/ Would be great to get some of your input, thanks guys
Leigh 87 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Hey. I wasn't and am still not entirely ready to date due to my ex, among other issues that need therapy. The thing is... When I fell hard for a guy that I ws truly interested in, I did not think about my ex. At all. Even though I probably wasn't ready to date! If this guy was really it for you, you would not still think of your ex when your new guy went away. 1
OpheliaSong Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Just say that. "Sorry, I'm not over my ex. It's unfair to you, to continue building a relationship with you while my heart is not in it. I want to end it now before it goes any further." Done. I agree with this. Be honest and straightforward.
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