zpat4etsu Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Well it's almost been a week and i'm going crazy. I need that fix (contact). I just keep wishing I could go back to the beginning when we first met. We met on Labor Day weekend. He pursed me through my friend. I wasn't sure I liked him but he showered me with so much attention and kindness. He began telling me how he was cutting other women off and changing his life for me to fit in after second date and then all of sudden his family started telling him how crazy I was about him and he began to treat me like crap. The text and calls slowed down. The more he distance the more anxious I became. Over the last few weeks he with the distance he started talking to me about how he was ok with me seeing other people so I was like WTF. He's been cold and saying some mean stuff. So after standing me up on my bday (which he ask to take me out and then said he didn't say it) he really became distant so I began to question him. He stated that he never told me he wanted a commitment and that he met someone 3 weeks ago that he's been speaking to on the phone but hasn't been out with (not sure I believe that) he then went on to say that "I was a nice lady" and he enjoyed being with me but he couldn't see me when he wanted (live 1hr away), he didn't want to lead me on and he didn't want to hold me back. Once again I thought WTF. So after he ignored my text and calls last Sunday I decided NC was best. It's killing me. I keep thinking about all he said in the beginning and wondering who this woman is and why?????? I can't figure how you go from me so taken with someone to this within 2 months. It's killing me that he hasn't even tried to contact me to see if anythings wrong. I wana call or text so bad to see if he's ok with loosing me and what's that woman got that i don't. I'm afraid he's gong to be an ******* to me because it probably hasn't been long enough for him to miss me........
knoklee Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 really i think, this guy like to play with women feelings, he jump from one to another. what's confusing you is why he's doing so? briefly because he's womanizer. i don't think guys have the courage to ignore a women especially the ones with whom are comfortable . so stay strong ! he doesn't deserve you !!
Author zpat4etsu Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 Thank you. I think you're right but somehow just thinking that makes me so anxious inside that I wana contact him to verify it...
sun1972 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 In a nutshell hes a player.. and your better off ignoring him and dont need him pfft an hour away from each other is a barrier? oh how i wish.... Be strong and it will get easier, be glad you found out what he is like now and not a year from now.
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