RedRobin Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Uses 'biology' to rationalize his promiscuityDouble standardsAddiction issuesViolenceLack of empathy, compassionDislikes animalsLazy or unmotivatedLack of curiousityfew or no hobbiesWatches a lot of TV or listens to talk radio (ie Rush Limbagh, etc)Poor health/eating habitsPrefers weak, servile women (and complains when these women act insecure) ... oh and... vainsuperficialdoesn't manage commitments well (to friends, family, or anyone or anything else in their care)Uses peopleNot a person of their word. Poor follow through. Should add that these are qualities I avoid in either gender.
jphcbpa Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 - attention whores (via social media or in person)...look at me selfies and status updaters -dark hair on arms -obnoxious drunks -act disrespectful when their husbands are not around
Juventa2012 Posted November 20, 2013 Posted November 20, 2013 Constantly complaining that they are fat, old etc Obsessed with his looks Takes longer than me to get ready Insecure Lack of respect (flirting with other women in your presence) Lack of empathy Jumps to conclusions or assumptions Bad communicator Boring Lack of romance Anxious and depressed Needs attention but is not willing to give it Immature Low sex drive
man_in_the_box Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Because in the eyes of many men there is no difference between a feminist and a manhater. I don't agree with it but it is a widely held opinion. Well a lot of plain misandrists do use the term feminism to cover up their inate sexism. It's an old trick to wrap your hate message in a politically correct package. Too bad it hurts the name of actual feminism though. 1
pink_sugar Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 -Bad hygiene -too much body hair -prefer guys to be clean shaven or trimmed goatee -obsessed with football -leaves the seat up -bad eating habits -bad money habits -socially conservative (none of the "women belong in the kitchen" attitudes) -poor me attitude
Lokie Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 - closed mindedness - arrogance - unkind - not self aware - bad spellers and bad writers - not smart - entitlement issues - selfish - bad communicator - simple/one dimensional - know-it-alls 1
Absinthe Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 No self respecting man wants to date somebody that hates them and the same applies to women as well. Yes, but feminism =/= hating men. You said yourself earlier that you acknowledged this. Feminism means that I believe I should be able to vote, have a job, own property etc. In fact, women who openly hate men do a lot of damage to the cause (although some men hardly help with their blanket assumptions about every woman everywhere) and are not feminist at all.
Woggle Posted November 21, 2013 Posted November 21, 2013 Well a lot of plain misandrists do use the term feminism to cover up their inate sexism. It's an old trick to wrap your hate message in a politically correct package. Too bad it hurts the name of actual feminism though. I agree. They have done to feminism what the religious right has done to christianity.
blueskyday Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 (edited) I love men, but I don't like: Need for validation from other women while in relationship. This includes looking and needing attention. Usually a sign of ego problems and loyalty issues. Laziness. Lack of drive in life in general. Refusal to plan. " I live in the moment" crap..." Let's just have fun and see where this goes. No labels. Let's have sex now" crap. Lack of kindness or empathy. Related to selfishness. Dishonesty. Impulsivity. Lack of control or discipline. Small penis. Just kidding! Small brain! I like smart men Edited November 23, 2013 by blueskyday
Nikki Sahagin Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 (edited) OOOO, OOOO I have more: * Low sex drive. Mine is high and I need someone willing to match it. * Poor personal hygiene. * Hypocritical views on women having a sexual past if he himself has had many partners. * Regularly using slang/sexist terms. * Burping/farting in front of me. This one seems commonly accepted but I hate it. * Sleeps in late regularly * Always in front of TV or playing video games or online. * Dislikes animals. Could never work. I'm animal mad! * Hates travel (I want to explore and have some adventures) * Lacks passion. * Has walked out on/does not support his own children. * Has been violent to a woman. * Is extremely religious. Moderately religious okay...but I'd rather a spiritual person. Me and an extreme religious character would never agree on anything. Edited November 23, 2013 by Nikki Sahagin
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