What do you find unattractive in the opposite sex?

[Keenly]

Controlling, jealous, or attention whore ish behavior.

Delusional self conscious body image issues.

Not being able to take a compliment or a gift.

Not accepting chivalry.

Knows more about reality TV than reality.

Always texting some one (usually a guy, see 1c )

Gets mad over stupid facebook things. (Why did this girl like your status?)

Non affectionate.

Can't show PDA.

Only knows how to argue with yelling and personal attacks.

Hurts other people, regardless of whether or not they did it on purpose.

[Shepp]

• Unloyal
  
• No sense of humour
  
• Jealous
  
• Clingy
  
• Pessimism
  
• Too uptight
  
• Too wrapped up In image
  
• Poor hygiene
  
• Plays the victim
  
• Tight with money
  
• Takes themselves to seriously
  
• Sucks up to people
  
• Wants people to suck up to them
  
• Looks down on people
  
• Doesn't like the outdoors
  
• Doesn't care about loking after themselves and being fit
  
• Selfish
  
• Can't stand up for themselves
  
• Can't tell me I'm being a git if I am being
  
• Boasting (in a serious non tounge in cheek way)
  
• Not liking family
  
• Too non-committal / sits on the fence
  

[Woggle]

A misandrist attitude

A sense of entitlement

Having double standards about traditional gender roles

Being materialistic

Being snobby

[Eggplant]

• arrogance
  
• low sex drive
  
• obesity
  
• robot-like semi-autistic personality with no right brain
  
• rudeness
  

[RedRobin]

• Uses 'biology' to rationalize his promiscuity
  
• Double standards
  
• Addiction issues
  
• Violence
  
• Lack of empathy, compassion
  
• Dislikes animals
  
• Lazy or unmotivated
  
• Lack of curiousity
  
• few or no hobbies
  
• Watches a lot of TV or listens to talk radio (ie Rush Limbagh, etc)
  
• Poor health/eating habits
  
• Prefers weak, servile women
  

[MrCastle]

Woggle nailed it with "double standards when it comes to gender roles."

 

Most of mine have been listed. I'll put them up anyway.

 

-Shallowness

-Immaturity

-Drug user/party girl

-Overly clingly

-No sense of humor/sarcasm

-Ice queen

-Man hater

-Woman that treat you like garbage just because they don't find you physically attractive. I run into girls I'm not physically attracted to every day of my life, still treat them like human beings.

 

That should do it

[KathyM]

Abusive/disrespectful to women.

 

Chauvanistic (thinks that men are better than women and should have more rights/better treatment than women).

 

Views women as objects and not as people.

 

Uses women or thinks they should be treated badly.

 

Treats people in general badly or rudely.

 

Is dishonest/lies/cheats.

 

Boring/doesn't like to have fun or go out much.

 

As far as physical features: overweight; short; dumpy-looking.

 

No hobbies or interests.

 

Excessive computer gaming or excessive T.V. watching.

 

Controlling/bossy.

 

Easily angered.

 

Self centered. Only cares about himself and shows lack of concern for others.

[todreaminblue]

Abusive/disrespectful to women.

 

Chauvanistic (thinks that men are better than women and should have more rights/better treatment than women).

 

Views women as objects and not as people.

 

Uses women or thinks they should be treated badly.

 

Treats people in general badly or rudely.

 

Is dishonest/lies/cheats.

 

Boring/doesn't like to have fun or go out much.

 

 

No hobbies or interests.

 

Excessive computer gaming or excessive T.V. watching.

 

Controlling/bossy bu then i like am man who knows how to get thiongs done so a bit of a double here.

 

Easily angered.

 

Self centered. Only cares about himself and shows lack of concern for others.

 

 

 

i like kathy ms post and have basically repeated everything bar the short thing i dont mind short men cause i aint tall....:bunny:....i have dated shorter but he had issues.......he was never dumpy always fit...but as far as calling people dumpy....its nah i cant talk.....but i keep up ..........deb

[Emilia]

• Overly emotional, emotionally unstable.
  
• Passive aggressive, doesn't have the balls to say what he thinks and wants, doesn't stand up for himself.
  
• Caught up in the sheep mentality, follows the pack, doesn't have his own mind.
  
• Changes his morals according to how the wind blows.
  

[Valen]

Girls who likes to club and drink til they are wasted.

Girls who has friends with benefits.

Girls who do one night stands.

Girls who are overly religious.

Girls who are racist.

Girls who are drug addicts.

[Absinthe]

I'm a straight woman, so...

 

• men who tell me to grow out my very short hair
  
• men who hate feminists (based on the charming anti-feminist men some of my mates have been with, I interpret this as being expected to stay in the kitchen or "know my place"...I love my job and my independence, not gonna happen)
  
• men who are lacking in any ambition or direction
  
• men who are ... not very bright
  
• men who just agree with EVERYTHING I say
  

[Absinthe]

Also, adding to this:

 

- fat

- old (30+)

- already has children

- taller than me (though this may vary on how hot she is....I've dated girls taller than me, but they had model-esque facial features)

 

You sound like a catch.

[Zezima]

leaves the door open when taking a dump

[Mariposa10]

These, plus:

 

- self-identified feminist

- doesn't like/want kids

- can't cook

- too dominant

- too uptight

- white in ethnicity (in most cases)

- half (or more) the sexual partners that I've had

 

What's wrong with a "self-identified feminist"? You do know feminism stands for equality between men and women, that's all.

 

Anyway, back to the topic:

 

Someone who's sexist, flaky, lazy and expects me to be his servant cook/clean etc.

[PutARingOnIt]

married, looking to cheat on his wife

arrogant, cocky

men who play mind games

men who have multiple kids with multiple women

dishonesty

old and scruffy looking

[Woggle]

What's wrong with a "self-identified feminist"? You do know feminism stands for equality between men and women, that's all.

 

Anyway, back to the topic:

 

Someone who's sexist, flaky, lazy and expects me to be his servant cook/clean etc.

 

Because in the eyes of many men there is no difference between a feminist and a manhater. I don't agree with it but it is a widely held opinion.

[ltjg45]

1. Constantly jumps to assumptions/conclusions. *My biggest issue right there.*

2. Obese/fat

3. Lazy

4. No positive ambition at all. Even a minimal wage job is good enough for me.

5. Smokers

6. Heavy drinkers.

 

I can't think of anything else.

[Absinthe]

Because in the eyes of many men there is no difference between a feminist and a manhater. I don't agree with it but it is a widely held opinion.

 

MRAs / chauvinists usually get defensive whenever a woman says anything about anything, ever, so if they want to call me a "manhater" then, sure, whatever.

[RedRobin]

You and I are spirit animals. Or perhaps twins separated at birth

 

There were definitely a few things on your list that we share!

[down hearted]

teeth is a big thing for me, if they have bad breath 24/7 like when mouthwash can't get rid off type of bad breath and also yellow teeth with like missing teeth and black stains on teeth etc that i can't handle, imagine having to kiss them and make out with them no matter how perfect personality wise they are oral hygiene is a plus for me.

[Eternal Sunshine]

Unkind

Lazy

Dislikes animals

Party mentality

Sleazy

Player

Obese

Poor hygiene

Selfish in bed

[samsungxoxo]

Unattractive qualities in a man

 

1) Cruel towards animals

2) Mean towards others, kids and women

3) Excessive drinking/partying, drug/porn addiction and history of violence

4) Hypocritical players who are in the 20+ digits in sexual partners and criticize/sham women that do the same thing they; don't preach and ask for what you can't bring to the table

5) Doesn't take care of himself and has no ambition at all nor even works

6) Religious fanatic

[Zezima]

What I find unattractive in Women.

 

1. Atheists with a pride.

 

2. Gossips too much

 

3. Cries all the time

 

4. Is unintelligent

 

5. Not helpful, expects man to do everything.

 

6. Too skinny or too fat.

 

7. Mean, Rude, and non-understanding of me and my problems.

 

8. Has no musical ability or talents.

 

9. No interest in video games.

[Babolat]

Male here:

 

1) lack of confidence

2) insecure

3) jealous

4) not adventerous (too conservative)

5) little to no sense of humor

6) body image issues

7) not social

8) does not take care of themselves (health, physical, emotional, etc)

9) irresponsible

10) no passions/ambitions/goals

11) uses drugs, drinks too much, parties too much, has addictions (these are subjective of course to me)

12) drama

13) has issues with cats/dogs

14) poor communicator

Edited November 20, 2013 by Babolat

[Woggle]

MRAs / chauvinists usually get defensive whenever a woman says anything about anything, ever, so if they want to call me a "manhater" then, sure, whatever.

 

No self respecting man wants to date somebody that hates them and the same applies to women as well.