Zezima Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 What do you find unattractive in the opposite sex? For me it is, -A girl who talks badly about other people behind their backs -Smokes -Dances like Miley Cyrus at the VMA awards -A frequent gossiper -Obese girl -Unintelligent -Someone who is primarily influenced by a social group and is not an individual by nature. -Hates video games -Has no musical talent.
Phoe Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 bitterness, lack of intelligence, close-mindedness 3
bentleychic Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 -Smoker -Druggie -Alcoholic -Liar -Abuser -Mean to/dislikes animals or children -Pompous -Ignorant (I could probably go on and on! LOL)
DianneL.90 Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 unkind towards others, cruel to animals, pushes for sex early, doesn't take care of himself
pteromom Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 - Too cocky/arrogant - Insecurity/talking down about himself all the time - Too muscular - Smoking - Drugs or heavy drinking - Controlling behaviors - Bitterness
Author Zezima Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 -A girl who likes getting high or drunk at a party -Really short hair -Wears socks for gloves -taller than 5 ft 8, (i'm a pretty short guy soz) -Has no concept of personal finance or saving -Is lazy and dependable on a man to do everything -Unattractive body
BlametheIrish Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 (edited) Wears socks for gloves lmao I would love to hear the story behind that one As far as looks are concerned I do not find blonde men attractive one bit. You got to.have*an*awesome personality to make,up for the hair lol. Ive dated obese men, Tall, Skinny, muscular you name it but Ive,only dated two blondes. Just not my thing Uses to much talkCologne Uses to much hair product Men who are too metro Men who are controlling ( I'm all about equality baby!) Men who dress like teenagers still Beards (I can deal with them but I find them to be very very unnatractive) Alpha wannabes Men qho treat me,like a trophy Men who have zero.empathy and sympathy Men who.hate animals Men who dislike the outdoors Stupid men who think they're smart *******s Whiny guys Too insecure Thats it for now Edited November 15, 2013 by BlametheIrish My phone is screwed up.big time. even when I edit it ends up looking lije a kid did my punctuation. 1
M30USA Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Most unattractive things in a woman: 1) Attitude of entitlement (top of list) 2) Inability to compromise 3) Acting and dressing like a man 3
carhill Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Emotional instability, especially that trending to Jekyll and Hyde. I think that watching an emotionally stable and calm person turn into Jekyll and Hyde due to mental illness really polarized me towards this particular trait, as I had tolerated it for many years as an adult in interpersonal relationships with women, much to my own detriment. At my age I don't have a real laundry list but this one is a dealbreaker for sure, at any level but the most superficial and casual of associations/interactions. Though lesser in importance, another trait I've found to be relatively common in my interactions which I've come to find unattractive is women who have distant or strained relations with their families (siblings/parents/grandparents, etc). To me, at this time of life, it's too short to be bound up in all that stuff. Pass. 1
Mr Scorpio Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Profanity. By that, I mean profanity in casual conversation. Cursing is alright while swept up in emotion (cheering, angry, surprised, disappointed). Otherwise, she might as well be spitting on the ground and scratching her armpits as well. 1
Nikki Sahagin Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 (edited) A 'lad' No confidence/self-esteem Uses sexist terms casually i.e. 'you're a p*ss*', 'stop being a b****' Wolf whistling Excessive drinking Excessive partying Dislikes animals Arrogance Being regularly ignored Excessive video game playing Unable to discuss problems 'retreats into shell' Has had lots and lots of casual sex (our attitudes to sex would just be too different and we probably couldn't be happy long term) OR no sex at all (I would be a bit alarmed) Possessive/clingy/overly jealous Abusive/violent Expects me to do everything domestically and wouldn't help out Beards/long hair (not my thing) Really fat or really skinny Very small penis Edited November 15, 2013 by Nikki Sahagin 1
mutualove Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 A girl who praises herself and thinks/says she's beautiful.
man_in_the_box Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Either overweight or ice queen. Can't deal with either. 1
Kate9292 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Looks: short, fat or too skinny, baby face. Personality: closed minded, entitled, lazy, judgemental, possessive. A girl who praises herself and thinks/says she's beautiful. What's wrong with a bit of self-esteem boost?
Bigcitydreamer Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 A girl who praises herself and thinks/says she's beautiful. So that rules out anyone who is pleased with the way they look? That's pretty messed up. A lot of people are happy with the way they look what's wrong with that? Going around saying your beautiful all the time would be annoying but someone simply thinking they are beautiful deep down doesn't mean they are a bad person whatsoever. That's just confidence. Things that I find unattractive would be: Someone who is disrespectful to me or anyone else. Unreliable Chauvinist Low intelligence Irresponsible
mutualove Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 What's wrong with a bit of self-esteem boost? Nothing,except that's not self-steem boost,that would be pride,and not the good kind.Remember beauty should be in the eye of the beholder.
mutualove Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 So that rules out anyone who is pleased with the way they look? That's pretty messed up. A lot of people are happy with the way they look what's wrong with that? Going around saying your beautiful all the time would be annoying but someone simply thinking they are beautiful deep down doesn't mean they are a bad person whatsoever. That's just confidence. Things that I find unattractive would be: Someone who is disrespectful to me or anyone else. Unreliable Chauvinist Low intelligence Irresponsible You are right but that's not what I meant.Thinking you are beautiful there's nothing wrong with that,throwing it in other people's faces,your boy friend for instance,that's just not healthy.It's equivalent to I'm higher in that sense or other's are beneath me and things like that.Otherwise there's nothing wrong with being one or just thinking to oneself in a HEALTHY manner that you're good looking,beautiful etc.I hope I made myself clear. 1
Kate9292 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Nothing,except that's not self-steem boost,that would be pride,and not the good kind.Remember beauty should be in the eye of the beholder. Whenever I feel a little down, I pep talk myself that I'm smart and beautiful. It works for me and I see nothing wrong with that.
mutualove Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Whenever I feel a little down, I pep talk myself that I'm smart and beautiful. It works for me and I see nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with that. cheers
nomadic_butterfly Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 -unbeliever of the creator -indecisive -irreverent -mental health issues -mental/emotional/spiritual immaturity -tight fisted -commitment phobic -unreliable -disloyal -irresponsible -lack of self control -lack compassion -unaffectionate -poor money management skills -an addict -lack of goals/direction -complacent -disrespectful to his mom -abandonment issues -unprincipled -unintelligent -always the victim -shortsighted (doesn't think or plan for the future)
regine_phalange Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 (I'm a woman and I dislike in men) Audacity Babblers Superficiality Instability Lack of direction in life Extravagant clothes Unhealthy habits Pseudioseriousness Feminine body shape Narcissists. 666
ScienceGal Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Unibrow! (both sexes). Most of my others have already been listed.
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