Possible for a guy to only like kissing and handing hands?

[DianneL.90]

My best friend Jenny knows a guy like that. He only had one relationship in his life and had sex very few times with the gf (he only did it because in order for the gf not to leave and to appear normal) and never really felt anything. He's been single for years ever since, is 26 years old and sex doesn't turn him on but according to my friend, he does like going on a date, talking a lot, kissing and holding hands. He does likes women but not really into sex or anything deep.

 

I was wondering if a guy like him would be great? I'm going to ask my friend to introduce me to him. I'm tired of men trying to make early moves.

 

But this is really new to me. Is it really possible for a guy to really feel nothing sexually and practically have no sex drive and only want to kiss and hand holds? I know it's usually us that don't want sex right away because he don't feel like the way guys do. But for a guy to not feel that???

[DianneL.90]

So I don't know. Should I pursue this guy? While it's great to hear not all men want to move straight to sex, I'm wondering if I should work it out with him or take into consideration of what Jenny told me. She said that she would feel as if it was a friend she was dating and not a romantic bf.

 

I'm still thinking about it. If I get into a relationship with him, will it work out? Jenny wouldn't mind introducing me to him but she keeps saying I'll get bored just like his ex gf.

[DianneL.90]

Wow this site sucks... going elsewhere...bye

[heartshaped]

Personally, I don't know why you'd want to date a guy who (from his own words and admittance I'm guessing) doesn't want to have sex.

[Kate9292]

Yes, it is possible for some guys to be asexual. But I would never get with a guy like that, not in a million years.

 

Wow this site sucks... going elsewhere...bye

 

What the hell are you so angry about?

[salparadise]

She's saving herself the trouble of having to emasculate him at some point down the line... she can always keep a few orbiters on the side in case she needs to get that thing pounded occasionally. Who knows, he might be the perfect cuckold and help her with setups and such.

[Zezima]

Maybe he is asexual. This means he isn't really sexually attracted to people. However, that doesn't mean asexuals can't like someone, they may just not be interested in sex.

[MissBee]

Yes, there are some people who are asexual.

 

Now being asexual isn't some type of exaggeration, as its sometimes used as, but an actual orientation. These people do not have low sex drives, they actually are not at all interested in sex and it is not a choice like celibacy, but something they have no control over. They do have normal emotional needs and can form relationships, but aren't interested in the sex aspect. So if you are interested in sex, but just want a man who takes it slow, such a guy isn't going to be for you as he is never going to want sex.