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Lied to by gf but can't move on


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Alright so been dating my gf for a year! For the past 4 mots she was living with me and I kept finding her smoking cigars when I was at work and the. Lying about it! I wouldn't mind it if she was honest about it to me! She has a really bad addiction problem and easily gets addicted to things!! I love this girl but after being lied to so many times I felt like we needed a break! Got into one last fight the night of holloween! She moved out and claimed she slept in her car! Next day we talked and got back together! It lasted only 2 days and same thing happened! Barely talked for a week the. Finally decide we both loved each other so we decided to try it again and she swore she would change and realized I'm the best thing that happend to her!

A week by and we were doing the best we have been for awhile! I finally felt like things were normal again!! Then I'm at work and my brothers gf shows up and tells me she heard the night we brokeup she went and had sec with another guy which was almost 40 ad she's only 18!!! I got pissed and confronted her and she just kept lying and said idk what I'm talking about cus I don't even know his name!! The next morning I told her to leave cus I know it's true!! She left and I get a call at 5 am from her wanting to stay at my house cus bums kept coming up to her car!

I allow it but in the morning I told her she can't stay! I finally got we to admit she kissed te guy but she won't admit she had sex with him!!

I know she did though, she is super good at lyin but gives off little hints!

So now even though I can't be with her she is all I think about and I keep thinking what if I forget everything? I'm so lost cus I really care for her ! But I feel like she will go **** up again!

Plz any suggestions? Someone to talk to?

Oh and not to mention one night we both got drunk and I lost where she went so I walked home and drove to find her! Ne'er found her but it a DUI!! So not only did we breakup but I have no liscense!!

Any help on what I should do would be great!

Oh and sorry about spelling I'm in my phone

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Get rid of her, she betrayed you man you don't want that.

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