gaius Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 He sent you fake pics then got mad when you sent him photoshopped ones?
Author skela Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 He sent you fake pics then got mad when you sent him photoshopped ones? LOL no. When we first starting talking he sent a fake photo as a joke and then sent me photos of himself but not full body - either face or body only. I sent photos - same. Because I had been doing a lot of training for a tv show my body looked different and he got suspicious. Thought it would be funny to send him an obvious photoshopped one and then let him in on the joke. Got some bad news about my daughter so never got to the reveal stage. That's the recap. :-) 1
FitChick Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 If he isn't sure what you look like, tell him to watch you on TV.
Author skela Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 I'm going to send him an email explaining why I didn't let him know right away why pic was a joke, let him know about show. If he can't accept that oh well...at least my conscience will be clear and I won't feel guilty any more.
ses Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 I would rearrange your priorities and focus on your daughter's health for now. You have enough on your plate. If he doesn't desire further contact and feels deceived, then that's his problem to resolve. Don't chase him; it will just look desperate. He may be a great guy but manage your expectations since you all have never met before. Best wishes to you and your family.
Author skela Posted November 17, 2013 Author Posted November 17, 2013 Yes, I am focusing on my daughter. That is my top priority. But this had been bothering me lately because it's not my nature to deceive people. I don't have any intention that this point to be anything other than friends with anyone until my daughter is 100%. I just know from reading this board, listening to other people's experiences and my own how hurtful it is when u feel like someone was screwing with u.
gaius Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 Yes, I am focusing on my daughter. That is my top priority. But this had been bothering me lately because it's not my nature to deceive people. I don't have any intention that this point to be anything other than friends with anyone until my daughter is 100%. I just know from reading this board, listening to other people's experiences and my own how hurtful it is when u feel like someone was screwing with u. He'll be ok. I get the impression that even without your daughter getting sick maybe this wasn't something you were fully committed to anyway. Which there's nothing wrong with. I don't think any of us have always known for sure exactly what we wanted from the beginning of a flirtation. I'm sure he had a lot of fun so don't feel bad.
Author skela Posted November 18, 2013 Author Posted November 18, 2013 He'll be ok. I get the impression that even without your daughter getting sick maybe this wasn't something you were fully committed to anyway. Which there's nothing wrong with. I don't think any of us have always known for sure exactly what we wanted from the beginning of a flirtation. I'm sure he had a lot of fun so don't feel bad. Yes, it wasn't about being committed. It was really more about having fun. I have devoted a huge chunk of my life to raising my kids on my own and decided it was "my time". I know people think it's really easy to go out and meet people but I don't think it is LOL. I actually posted on here about a guy that I had asked to be FWB and he was dragging his feet and that's how I met the other guy. So this guy, who is the first person I ever met online and I started talking and we had amazing chemistry and it was fun. That's all I wanted was some fun and feel a man's body. :-) I'm at my sexual peak LOL
Author skela Posted November 20, 2013 Author Posted November 20, 2013 So just a quick update - I sent the email explaining everything. If he believes it or not I can't control that. I just personally feel better coming clean and explaining what I did was a joke. I actually feel so much better. Also, thank you for all the pm's about my daughter. Much appreciated - great to have the support. As a single mom times like this can be very difficult and lonely. Focusing on all the stuff we have coming up together. Night night off for another two hour session at the gym :-)
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