Im obviously addicted to sex/masturbating/sexualthoughts/women...

[All these problems]

Ive been with this girl for just over 2 years, the relationship is very good and very mature for our age. We don't argue a lot and keep it relaxed and laid back so we can enjoy the relationship rather than get hung up over what future we may or may not have and **** along those lines.

 

So no problems there... There's really not, its a great relationship and we are a brilliant couple. However i have a terrible and most of the time uncontrollable array of sexual desires daily. To be honest i don't remember a time when i didn't.

 

I began masturbating and experimenting with girls at such an early age i cant even give you a rough estimate of how old i actually was... so it must of been pretty ****ing young. The girls i played with were older than me, usually they would of been interested in boys their own age however we all lived in arms reach of each other and growing up i had a lot of attention from them.

 

Now 20 years old, had 3 girlfriends, slept with 3 girls, had blowjobs from 7 and i feel as if i should feel content with it all. But every single day im still scanning for attractive girls my eyes literally darting from face to face, leg to leg, ass to ass (usual order) and i know this might seem like "typical lad"

 

But

1: I have a girlfriend

2: i still masturbate twice a day (even when ive had sex the previous night)

3: im so desperate for female attention i do stupid things like look for girls on chatroullette/omegle

and 4: ive been looking at prostitutes for months because the concept excites me and leads me to believe it could knock some of it out my system

 

Ive never cheated but my mind will not sway away from every piece of skin i see, literally if im on a bus and theres a girl who gives me the faintest look i will get a boner.

 

Just want to here from any guys that have had had the same problem and what theyve done about it

 

And any ladies with experience dealing with a cunt boyfriend like that in the past

 

or any other open minded people who believe in open relationships an all that, i just want some insight please.

[pteromom]

Now 20 years old, had 3 girlfriends, slept with 3 girls, had blowjobs from 7 and i feel as if i should feel content with it all. But every single day im still scanning for attractive girls my eyes literally darting from face to face, leg to leg, ass to ass (usual order) and i know this might seem like "typical lad"

 

But

1: I have a girlfriend

2: i still masturbate twice a day (even when ive had sex the previous night)

3: im so desperate for female attention i do stupid things like look for girls on chatroullette/omegle

and 4: ive been looking at prostitutes for months because the concept excites me and leads me to believe it could knock some of it out my system

 

Have you talked to your gf about the possibility of an open relationship? Maybe she's open to it.

 

If not, you have to decide which you value more - your gf or exploring other women - and then make a choice.

 

This is part of growing up - having to choose a path, and knowing that when you choose that path, you are choosing not to go down another one.

 

You said you are mature for your age. This is where you prove that.

[vtran31]

watch Don Jon with scarlett johansson. that might relate to your issue :bunny:

[Zezima]

You must have high testosterone levels which isn't surprising since you're a man in your early 20s. However, you have to learn how to control it somewhat. Well thats all the advice I got.