Lonestar Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 I usually post under Second Chances but since we're now broken up, I figure this is a better spot. I don't feel like reiterating everything so here's my running post over the past couple days about my ex-husband http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t53460/ The last I posted he had called Monday night and said he didn't want it to end, but I stuck to my word and told him it was iover. I had to leave a message on his voicemail this morning about our daughter because he didn't pick up his cell. Instead of calling me back directly, he left a message on my home machine at the end of the day to completely avoid me, but did answer my question. Now I'm upset that he didn't call me direct, and I called him back to see if we were playing the avoidance game now. He didn't answer and I didn't leave a message. Even if he wasn't home, he'll know I called b/c of caller ID. I suppose he could be out shopping for Xmas with her, but I feel like he's more ignoring my call. Now I'm getting freaked out, even though I know I don't want this to go on and it's over. I want to call again so bad. I totally hate any form of rejection from him. It gets me all wrecked inside. What do I do now? How do I not pick up that goddamn phone and dial again???? How does he tell me on Monday he doesn't want it to be over and then ignores me two days later. Btw, the call about our daughter was NOT an excuse to call him. I had to discuss the night he was going to take her. I'm not good at this. I'm faltering. I feel inadequate.
theone44 Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 Originally posted by Lonestar I usually post under Second Chances but since we're now broken up, I figure this is a better spot. I don't feel like reiterating everything so here's my running post over the past couple days about my ex-husband http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t53460/ The last I posted he had called Monday night and said he didn't want it to end, but I stuck to my word and told him it was iover. I had to leave a message on his voicemail this morning about our daughter because he didn't pick up his cell. Instead of calling me back directly, he left a message on my home machine at the end of the day to completely avoid me, but did answer my question. Now I'm upset that he didn't call me direct, and I called him back to see if we were playing the avoidance game now. He didn't answer and I didn't leave a message. Even if he wasn't home, he'll know I called b/c of caller ID. I suppose he could be out shopping for Xmas with her, but I feel like he's more ignoring my call. Now I'm getting freaked out, even though I know I don't want this to go on and it's over. I want to call again so bad. I totally hate any form of rejection from him. It gets me all wrecked inside. What do I do now? How do I not pick up that goddamn phone and dial again???? How does he tell me on Monday he doesn't want it to be over and then ignores me two days later. Btw, the call about our daughter was NOT an excuse to call him. I had to discuss the night he was going to take her. I'm not good at this. I'm faltering. I feel inadequate. Stop letting this person putting you on this rollercoater ride back and forth. never put up with a bahavior pattern.
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