Asylum15 Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Hi guys/gals, need some advice. I'm 21, in college, in my third year. In my first year, there were 7 girls, non of which I showed much interest in, other than short interactions. Suddenly, in my second year, we all went out on a class party, and the girl I would have had most attraction to dragged me onto the dancefloor (she initiated) and we kissed. Now, I didn't take that as anything serious since we both had alcohol onboard. We then begun talking a lot on Facebook, which she initiated also. However, after 1-2 months, I made a stupid mistake of telling her I liked her, only to get, ''I didn't see you that way.'' (FriendZone). We went out of contact for eight months, in which I worked alot of my body, confidence, and game. I'm less of a nice guy, more grounded and decisive. Just recently, we spoke again for the first time, and I noticed some things about our interaction. - Her body faced me for the entire conversation, even when called in the middle of the convo by her friends. - Her body language was open, not closed. - She was exceptionally ''up straight'' in her posture. - She blushed. When I turned around to leave, she held eye contact for 1-2 seconds before i left, as if to suggest she wanted to come with me. I would LIKE to get with this girl, and not sure where to go next. Should I begin a basic interaction, and start some social teasing? Some advice would be great guys. Appreciate it, A.
d0nnivain Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Straight up on the phone or in person ask her on a date. Do not use facebook, email or text to ask. If she says no, never ask again & back off the friendship for your own sanity. You don't need a front row seat to her next relationship.
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