moved away now im back. 2nd chance sound possible?

[mixwell]

ok heres the deal.. i was with my ex for 7 years.. im 21.. i moved away not too long ago out of state.. she broke up with me and said she couldn't handle it..i moved back the beginning of this month so ive been away for about 2 months from her.. i decided i liked it better back in california.. well now that im back she acts all weird. like she hangs out with this guy a lot and says that they're just friends.. we went shopping one day at fredricks of hollywood (kinda like a victorias secret) well she was trying on bras and was asking me what i thought of them.. and i was like wtf because she standing there in the dressing room in the bra and im looking and all. she then "jiggled" her breasts and looked at me, then went closed the door.. we went to eat later on and i went to hold her hand.. i held it and she had a tight grip kinda.. i then tried again later and she said "why are you holding my hand?" i said does it bother you and she said yes it does.. so we hung out at starbucks another day and she was all talking about how i didnt giver her any "action" before i left and all that and she was saying she would did it as much as possible and all that.. we then ate another time and i had told her that i hung out with my friend (a female) she was accusing me of hooking up with her and all that and i was like no.. i pulled a receipt outta my back pocket from somewhere and she was like what is that.. i was like i duno.. i crumbled it up and threw it on the tray for the trash at the fast food place.. she then grabbed it and was looking at it.. so i said you dont have that privledge of snooping around anymore and she got pist off and said i know and i dont want it.. but i dont know like she said she didnt care about me moving away anymore and shes over it but she admits other times that she pist off still about it.. but now that im back its like she seems to be all busy and stuff. like she rarely returns my calls and when i ask if she wants to hang out shes like i dont know and kinda flaky.. i talk about us alot and she said thats why she avoids me is cuz thats all i talk about.. i normally call her about everyday.. im going to back off and not call but do you think theres any chance of us getting back together ? i mean i dont know why or how she could act the way she does to me when we were together for 7 years.. i mean we both lost our virginity to each other and all that and i know she loves me to death.. so should i just back off and not call her and see what happens or what ?? its hard also because we'd always spend the holidays together and now with xmas and new years its going to be hard !! so any advice would help me out alot !! im soo confused and it seems like i get mixed signals..i know shes still pist off but when is enough enough ?? i mean its been like a month almost since ive been back out here and i dont know i thought things would be better but it actually seems like its getting worse !! help !!

[Devildog]

You're confused? I just read this post twice and I have no idea what it says. Translate it into English please. And add some paragraphs or something.

[mixwell]

ok heres the deal.. i was with my ex for 7 years.. im 21.. i moved away not too long ago out of state. she broke up with me and said she couldn't handle it.

 

i moved back the beginning of this month so i was gone for about 2 months from her.. i decided i liked it better back in california.. well now that im back she acts all weird. She hangs out with this guy a lot and says that they're just friends. we went shopping one day at fredricks of hollywood (kinda like a victorias secret) and she was trying on bras and was asking me what i thought of them. i was like wtf because she's standing there in the dressing room in the bra and im looking and all. she then "jiggled" her breasts and looked at me, then went closed the door..

 

we went to eat later on and i went to hold her hand.. i held it and she had a tight grip kinda.. i then tried again later and she said "why are you holding my hand?" i said does it bother you and she said yes it does. so we hung out at starbucks another day and she was all talking about how i didnt giver her any "action" before i left and all that and she was saying she would've done it as much as possible and all that..

 

we then ate another time and i had told her that i hung out with my friend (a female) she was accusing me of hooking up with her and all that and i was like no.. i pulled a receipt outta my back pocket from somewhere and she was like what is that.. i was like i duno.. i crumbled it up and threw it on the tray for the trash at the fast food place.. she then grabbed it and was looking at it.. so i said you dont have that privledge of snooping around anymore and she got pist off and said i know and i dont want it..

 

but i dont know. she said she didnt care about me moving away anymore and shes over it but she admits other times that she pist off still about it. but now that im back its like she seems to be all busy and stuff. she rarely returns my calls and when i ask if she wants to hang out shes like i dont know and kinda flaky.. i talk about us alot and she said thats why she avoids me is cuz thats all i talk about.. i normally call her about everyday.. im going to back off and not call but do you think theres any chance of us getting back together ?

 

i dont know why or how she could act the way she does to me when we were together for 7 years.. we both lost our virginity to each other and all that and i know she loves me to death.. so should i just back off and not call her and see what happens or what ??

 

its hard also because we'd always spend the holidays together and now with xmas and new years its going to be hard !! so any advice would help me out alot !! im soo confused and it seems like i get mixed signals..i know shes still pist off but when is enough enough ?? its been like a month almost since ive been back out here and i dont know i thought things would be better but it actually seems like its getting worse !! help !!