rastamoose Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 One of my friends is into fitness and lifting weights, he is really big and has muscle. Whenever we go out to a club girls flock towards him and are like ' Can I feel your arm ' and are all over him. Is it that easy? I'm not saying it's easy to get big but getting girls attention seems easy if you have muscles. I always thought girls assumed muscular guys are jerks and egotistical. Maybe I should start lifting weights
Winherback Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Females are drawn to strong, confident men. Natures selection process. Initially the muscles and appearance help, but he still must back it up w respect and confidence. You can have all the muscles you want, but unless you have inner peace and strength, its only a temporary leg up imo. Kind of an empty promise if you will. And some girls are just not into the big bulky dudes regardless. But EVERY girl is into confidence. The goal of working out imo is to improve yourself, destress, to be healthy, and for you to get a sense of accomplishment and improve your own confidence/happiness. The ladies will fall in line thereafter...
theonlyjuan Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 I am pretty big it depends how you are. I am confident but I don't go around showing it off and asking people to touch me. I know girls that like really skinny guys, not everyone is going to like it. You might get the odd idiot guy who will want to fight you, so they can be like " I started on that big guy aren't I tough " I didn't start lifting to make other people happy, I do it because I enjoy it. Youtube Elliot Hulse He is very knowledgeable about lifting,fitness and life in general.
soccerrprp Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 I know girls who are repulsed by heavily muscular guys. Initially, the ladies may be intrigued, but if you suck as a person, doesn't matter.
MissPotato Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 I am a young woman and this is just what i think but maybe other girls think the same. I don't like big muscles since it means that the guy is obsessed by his appearance. Those guys are like girls who wear mini-skirt : we tend to think that if they do that, it's just to get the other sex attention. So we look at it and touch it just like a big piece of flesh, because we think he likes it and because he can help to make the other guy (the interesting ones) jealous.. In fact a woman who is seduced by a guy would never touch him as easily as he was a ham in a supermarket. Plus i must say that i do not like confident men. I myself am not very confident and i want my man to share with me his fears and hang-up. Plus i like to feel special for a guy and i don't feel that with the confident ones. But i think that indeed, most of the girls are into confidence. But not all. My advice would be : lift weight if you want to gain muscles, it could help you a little to feel more confident, but above all never tell a girl that you lift weight (or tell them your doctor wants you to do that because you have a fragile back for example). Sorry for my english!
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