liono Posted December 22, 2004 Posted December 22, 2004 I got a question. Well it's more like a soliloquy. Once you ask a girl out does the process get easier? I mean does the whole process of asking a girl out get easier. I've been on dates before but they were matchups. I like this girl at my church but I haven't seen her in while because she goes to school out of town. I 've been meaning to ask her out for sometime but she hasn't been at church. This is killing me because I don't know how she will react. Its been an off and on thing because I kid around with a lot of people at church. The sort of thing where everybody knows me as the person that laughing and joking in good taste. I pay special attention if she laughs though. I've had a feeling she liked me but I've never known for sure. I think her friend hinted that she did but if it was a hint I was oblivious to it. I can start conversations with her sometimes. That sometimes is an important factor because sometimes she's in a rush after church and I can't talk to her. With me not seeing her in a while I'm getting these feelings like maybe it time to move on. But my overall feeling is I got to do it because I like her and I have never seen her with anyone. All I want is to call her sometime.
moofer Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 write her a note that expresses your feelings for her! ( since she's always in a rush )
alphamale Posted December 23, 2004 Posted December 23, 2004 a girl that really and truly likes you (i stress really/truly) will make it VERY easy for you to ask her out. she will try to be alone with you or will hang near you or give you eye contact and smiles. If she is not doing this and leaving church right away then she is not interested. I would estimate that 95% of time when a woman likes (assuming she is not extremely shy) you she'll make it real real real easy for you.
Author liono Posted December 23, 2004 Author Posted December 23, 2004 The thing is I probably had many opportunities in the past but I guess it didn't click in my head to ask. And I'm pretty sure she is not avoiding me when she is in a hurry because she has to take her sisters places.
Author liono Posted December 24, 2004 Author Posted December 24, 2004 My biggest concern is she goes to school out of town. I just want to be able to start a relationship. I think whatever happens, happens.
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