Calilove95 Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Okay so me and this guy go waaaaay back to elementary days. We decided to talk n get in a relationship. Well his idea since he was the one who got at me. I feel head over heels for him no lie. I love this man he's my everything. I didnt mind that he had a baby but when we got together his baby mom was prego with baby#2 he had his doubts because she cheated on him previously. But it's his! And well he told me he wanted to make if work with me. So we were n love just living our life dealing with the drama but I think she really gets in his head! Before he was with me she did everything for him. Gave him a place to live fed him clothed him money all that good stuff. I mean she hardly had time for him since she's always at work school or dealing with her 3 kids. He n his family been kicked out of there apt a few months ago. His parents are split and he has no where to go. He moves n with his baby moms! And still has me as his gf.,..He buys for me he doesn't neglect me. But idk I feel like he's with her for the wrong reasons but I'm here with this dude that I truly love n I just want things to work out. I'm just so confused idk how to approach him about it.
MidwestUSA Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 It sounds like the way to 'have' him would be to feed him, clothe him, and give him a place to live! Maybe buy him a car while you're at it. Seriously tho, his baby momma's got an extra kid by having him around. Is that really what you want? Can he support himself or the two kids he's managed to produce?
Lemonitaz Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 If he's living at the baby momma's house, he's sleeping with her likely. Sounds like he's not commitment material. Do you know whether the other women know you're his gf? I'm guessing they don't and they also each think they are his gf.
Grumpybutfun Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 How to deal with my man being a babydaddy! Calilove: If he is living with another woman who he has a relationship with and a child with, he isn't your man. You may want him, but the reality is that he is sitting on the fence between two women and a child. If you prefer the drama of this situation to a peaceful relationship with a stable, committed man, then you have to accept that for as long as you see this man, your life will be all about the man and whatever his wants, preferences and desires are. Move on, Grumps
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