HeartBorken Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 So i need a little advice on this. I want to explain my whole relationship as clear as possible. I will break it up into sections. This all happened over the course of 2 years. High School Me and my Ex started dating during our senior year of high school. We got along very well and from the start we both seemed to be very committed to each other. Then the first issue in our relationship happened her sister moved away (She lived with her sister since her parents kicked her out) I was devastated that she moved but i figured we could still make it work. I decided to travel to see her everyday after school (Yes Everyday after school) about a 3 hour trip total. I loved her more than anything so i didn't mind traveling. As our relationship continued we started to become more sexually active with each other. This lead to our second issue in our relationship. Her period came about 3 weeks late and when it did arrive it was incredibly painful for her. this lead her to believe she had a miscarriage i however disagreed with it (Without seeking medical attention its hard to assume she lost a baby. Also she can be very gullible at times.....A Psychic told her that i cheated on her although i have never done such a thing). So throughout our relationship we would argue about that from time to time. Nearing the end of our senior year i wanted to go to prom but her family would not allow (They did not believe in it). So instead i planned out a perfect night in the city together (I paid for everything even her dress). I taught an act such as this showed that i cared about her more than anything. college We decided to attend the same college together and everything seemed to be going great but still her family was becoming a problem (Her sister always tried to push her to consider her options and her dad simply did not want me seeing her) So one day to teach my ex a lesson her family decided to call and pretend that her dad died. I felt this was cruel and completely uncalled for and from that moment i had enough i told her she was welcome to live with me and my mom and a few months later we ended up living together. This is when a few problems started to arise. It became clear that she can be very irresponsible with money but whenever i tried to make it clear that we need to set a budget or she should let me handle the money but she would say that i am treating her like she is stupid or that i feel like she can't do anything (This isn't the case i only wanted to make sure everything was stable) So we would argue about this and eventually she managed to put herself in credit card debt. To fix things i decided to sell $2000 worth of my stuff to clear her debt (I figured we had all the time in the world so it doesn't matter.... Stupid me) Anyway nearing December me and my mom decided to give her the best Christmas we could (She never celebrated a holiday before) and it was a really special moment for everyone we. I felt like we bonded greatly. My mom treated her like a second daughter. Fast forward last summer Our relationship was still pretty stable we would argue from time to time but nothing major. Anyway we decided that we wanted to move to Ohio (Her home town. Since it was cheaper than New York) The plan was she moves in August and i move in October after she got a place. But after she left i fell into a depression and ended up not talking as much on the phone. this continued for about a month and it was then that she decided to break up with me. The break up was pretty harsh she said that she deserves better and that i destroyed her love for me =/..... She also left me in $1000 debt plus the money she owes me. I know she isn't paying it back lol. I just feel like she ran from responsibility. So what do you think about all this? any taught could it be gigs?
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