krista28 Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Okay so recently i got together with this guy from work . he i think was really worried about people knowing. we went on a date abd then another one..and then u know what happened. We texted a couple of times after that..but then he seemed not to answer for awhile . he said he was out of town looking for work . My friend flipped on him for getting eith my cuz she's so protective. i only work there twice a month so i think it was sage for me. so.....anyhow she stuck her nose in and made things worse now he won't talk to either of us. He blocked facebook and phones. I feel like giving him a call..then maybe he'd answer and i could apologize. i don't know what to do i just wish he'd talk to mw...should i at least try or is that stalking ?
Zahara Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Leave the man alone FFS. How many threads do you have to create to get it through your head!? And stop finding excuses to make contact.
Leigh 87 Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Leave him alone. If he was interested, he would have found a way to contact you in the first place. If a guy stops contacting you, let it be. It was not meant to be. Guys can react very angrily if you call them and bother them once they have blocked you on social media. You will likely be ignored, hung up on or, worse: he will tell you to " please leave me alone" Guys do not like bunny boilers. They do not like girls who chase them and call them up when they are NOT interested in them. 2
Author krista28 Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 I guess so yes.. although i keep feeling thhis. was my. friends fault . hhhad she not threatened himm this wouldn't have happened I'm not bunny boiling
Zahara Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 I guess so yes.. although i keep feeling thhis. was my. friends fault . hhhad she not threatened himm this wouldn't have happened I'm not bunny boiling Even if she didn't threathen him, you should be staying away from him. You're not getting it. Either way, have NO CONTACT with him. If you both were still in contact, he'd just use you again for sex. Things wouldn't have changed. Him blocking you is actually a blessing to you.
clia Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Given that your friend threatened him (WTF?), you could be walking into a restraining order if you try to have any contact with him. Leave the poor man alone.
Author krista28 Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 Ya i mean she threatened him good...i don't know. He texted me last night saysorrt asking me to come over ...i said i didn't think it was a good idea after what happened . anyhow that's that.
Leigh 87 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 Ya i mean she threatened him good...i don't know. He texted me last night saysorrt asking me to come over ...i said i didn't think it was a good idea after what happened . anyhow that's that. He asked you to come over. Good girl for declining. Unless you want a friends with benifits, wait... Unless you want to be his BOOTY CALL (since he clearly doesn't like you enough to consider you a friend), then by all means, go for it:lmao: Personally, I only FWB with dudes who are actually my friend, and who respect me to not only call me over to be their booty call. Anyways, that is the only advice I have. You did the right thing. OH - and why do you have friends who verbally attack the guys in your life? It's really not cool what your mate did, if it were my friend, I would have a good talking to her.
Author krista28 Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 Ya like we got in a fight after that he said i was doing a bunch of immature bull****. He started saying it wasn't a mistake what happened even though i said it obviously was. he told me to f off and seemed super angry...and i was like telling him who the heck he thinks he is. and he's like go f yourself . he says he's blocking me but never does.
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