Blade96 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 So I was talking again to my Russian crush as I do every day, and he was trying to write a letter in English, to someone he knows, explaining Russian language to them. He asked for my help because I'm a native speaker. He said do you want to see the letter. I said well I am helping another male friend (the word is друг which means male friend and we speak only in russian) but i won't forget about him and implying I would get back to him. But, soon as I said that, he logged off just as I finished helping my friend and left just as I was writing готова ! (Ready!) and he didn't come back. Why do guys do this? I got the sense before that he never liked it whenever I did refuse to talk to him because I was busy (which isnt often i love seeing him) I told another friend about it and he said maybe he got a thorn up his back because he was jealous. Only explanation I could think of for why he would leave like that when I had already let it be known that I would in fact help him with his letter. WTF? Guys are so strange 1
Kate9292 Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Tell me about it. Some guys have this paranoia that whenever you mention anyone of opposite sex, they must assume that there is something sexual going on between you and the guy you mentioned. While a little jealousy is nice, I find this pretty insulting to be honest.
Confusedguy81 Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 yes. These things don't apply to women at all.... 1
Author Blade96 Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 LOL hey I didn't say women can't be batsh*t but as I am a straight female, and I am writing about a guy
clia Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Maybe there is no ulterior motive, and he just didn't have time to wait for you right then to finish up with your other friend.
Author Blade96 Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 That is possible also. to confusedguy I totally wouldn't mind if you wrote a post being confused about a girl's actions and saying women are batsh*t in fact I would laugh because plenty women are
Winherback Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 We are all bat**** crazy in our own right. Its why dating is SO AWESOME!!! Lol 1
Author Blade96 Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 We are all bat**** crazy in our own right. Its why dating is SO AWESOME!!! Lol Dating is awesome! Like most guys and girls, I love to date.
Author Blade96 Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 So I just told him Hey you didnt have to go, I was finished with my friend and was about to write готова (ready) and you were gone. But he said nothing just fixed the couple little mistakes I had in my russian and just added a smile. He just smiled at me. That`s all. Now I am REALLY confused. Oh well. As I said. Guys are weird. (Ok ConfusedGuy, you may come after me now. I just said it again )
Zezima Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Guys think girls are weird also. For instance, why do girls care so much about guys not putting the toilet seat down?
Author Blade96 Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 Hey, I agree. I, for example, give less than a crap about whether the guy leaves it up or down. He needs it up. If its up and I need it, I'll put it down myself. This is nothing. There are real problems in this world. Yep, those are the women I would call batsh*t.
superb Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 I am 100% positive that I'd feel jealousy too and I'm a crazy female :laugh:
Author Blade96 Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 Yeah stilll chatted for hours this evening though. He seems just fine except for the smile he gave me when I said he didn't have to leave and i wouldn't forget about him. No flirting though - just helped him with a word in English he didn't know. And he wanted me to translate the English conversation he was reading into Russian. THAT was also strange because originally he said he wanted help with English but instead when I called him on the phone on Skype he seemed to have changed his mind. So yeah. Still weird
Confusedguy81 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 That is possible also. to confusedguy I totally wouldn't mind if you wrote a post being confused about a girl's actions and saying women are batsh*t in fact I would laugh because plenty women are Sure I'll amuse you:p I dated a girl and I would talk about work alot. I work with nothing but women (I'm a teacher and the only other male is the maintenance guy). I once had to cancel plans with this girl because I had made arrangements to go with some of my female coworkers to the casino. I texted this information and she replied with an "ok" and ignored my texts for the next 2 days. She was pissed but she was also a psycho so...
Author Blade96 Posted November 15, 2013 Author Posted November 15, 2013 Heck yeah! Muppet if she knew about this nice planned evening out with your friends and coworkers and she gave you a hard time anyway. That sucks ConfusedGuy. In fact, in a healthy relationship, the 2 people should have lives where they go out with their friends and stuff. Makes for a nice happy relationship. My ex was a psycho like that too. (In my first thread here, way back when, I wrote about him.) He never let me breathe and always had to be part of everything I did.) Makes me wonder if you got your forum name from her or some other psycho
Confusedguy81 Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Heck yeah! Muppet if she knew about this nice planned evening out with your friends and coworkers and she gave you a hard time anyway. That sucks ConfusedGuy. In fact, in a healthy relationship, the 2 people should have lives where they go out with their friends and stuff. Makes for a nice happy relationship. My ex was a psycho like that too. (In my first thread here, way back when, I wrote about him.) He never let me breathe and always had to be part of everything I did.) Makes me wonder if you got your forum name from her or some other psycho Psycho might be a harsh word. NM ya she was a psycho. Very hot and cold and passive aggressive. I just don't think she knew what she wanted (atleast when it came to me). I chose the name because life is confusing and women are a part of that confusion.
Author Blade96 Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 Psycho might be a harsh word. NM ya she was a psycho :laugh: Everything is going great with my russian btw. Was talking to him for 6 hours earlier this evening. Although still never got an answer out of him as to why he skyped out on me the other day. Just a smile. Will not bring it up anymore though. Or pressure him in anyway. I said once, as I had written before. Once is enough. I just go on as normal. But still don't understand. Maybe I should just change my nick to ConfusedGirl81.
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