Vuuduu Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Hey ladies what do you all think of this? I've been seeing a guy for a year and a half. He was only semi committed. He would pull away a lot. Go hot and cold. He would say he loves me and a week later talk about us getting married to other people. He also had other women he was talking to. I'm a reasonable person, in that I'm not going to force a man to commit if he doesn't want to. But it did hurt, I shed my tears and then just accepted it and started to move on. I went on some dates and met up with an ex of mine. Just living life, trying to be happy. I started seeing this guy as a phase, a learning experience, and just a friend. Now I'm at a point where I can imagine him dating other women and it doesn't hurt. So I stopped calling him for several weeks, stopped being intimate, and just kept it platonic. He contacted me once, saying hey sexy, one night, and I didn't really respond to it. I just have kept on distancing myself. Then the other day I asked him some advice about a career move. Nothing personal, just very platonic. Well he seemed angry and hostile on the phone. He answered my question but he seemed angry about it. At first he just wanted to talk via text. I don't understand this hostility. When we were seeing each other he acted like he wanted to stay single, and I used to try to keep things going. Now I have completely given up and am happy to let him go...and he is upset about that?
emva07 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 well.....you can't assume he was mad because of what you said.
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