burr_jkb Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 One of my guy friends thinks I have the hots for him. ive known him him a long time bit we aren't very close or anything but when we started talking we talked all the time and about everything. one night he came on to me and kissed me, well attacked my face i should say. We talked about it a few days later I told him . it kinda upset me because he knew I had thiing for him and knew he didn't have anything for me yet he still did it. afterthat little conversation we were fine. I didn't say anything else about it and I didn't act like more than a friend and I didn't say anything about him coming back or anything. About two days later he started to distance himself from me. I texted him a few weeks later and he ignored me. So I texted him again and told him not to ignore me and to hear me out for 5 minutes. He replied with "if iI don't reply I'm busy not ignoring you!! We aren't dating! We aren't anything! We are just friends!" I told him that I knew we were just friends and that I'm not ignorant enough to think we were something and that I just didn't want something so dumb to mess up our friendship. He never messaged me back so I'm not going to say anything else to him. But he came on to me! And its not like I was blowing the kiss out of proportion because it wasn't that big of a deal. But all the weirdness is his fault! I dont know what to do.
bear602 Posted November 17, 2013 Posted November 17, 2013 simple...just talk to him.move forward with your friendship.if something ia suppose to happen it will.everything happens for a reason.just continue to be friends like before the kiss. 1
headinthecloud Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 How frustrating! Unfortunately, both your friendship and any potential relationship is over and done with. You have to let him go completely as he's lost all respect for you. A true friend doesn't treat you that way. He doesn't value you. So kick him to the curb. There are good people out there. Good luck!
Kizza Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 *Shake my Head* That turd tried to play you. He went it, thinking you would cave because he thought/knew you had a thing for him. You,! you smart thing! did not fall for it and rejected his lame face attacking advances and now he has retreated in to a corner to lick his bruised ego.... I wouldn't worry about losing that friendship. There was no friendship when he planned to take you for what he thought you may be worth to him which clearly wasn't much. You showed him *High 5*
ChrissaTodd1 Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 I was telling my ex best friend to not react to people who claim her and her friend are dating, yes It wasn't true but I was right to say not to care about what people think.. and she flipped on me called me a bitch, made me feel like I failed her but I was told she was in the wrong I didn't fight her I just deleted her. Then her so called friend Jenn T tried to add me to defend Jenny like always so i blocked her I didn't need her bitching at me for something she wasn't apart of, I realized how lonely this has made me even though I did right. I only have one friend now and that is sad. I want there to be somebody to talk too who will listen I guess even if it's for a few minutes I just need to know I will be okay.
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