bigred93 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 i had been dating this girl for 5 years and we recently broke up. The whole time we were apart we were talking, until she met this guy and then out of no where he dropped her. then we started to talk again. and everything was like normal. we were calling each other on the phone, seeing each other, sleeping with each other, pretty much thought we were going to work things out. she told she still wanted a future with me and wanted to still get our own place in a year. then she met this new kid. and she started to act strange towards me. told me we might not be able to keep seeing each other if we start seeing other people. so i expressed to her i thought we were going to make things work, and she told me she had no intentions of them working. so being confused, i kept pushing to see what was going on, an drove her off. she told her friends she dosnt want anything with me. after 5 years she told me her love for me is diminishing (this was said when she was upset). i ended our last conversation by saying i love you, and all she said was "mike". now i havent talked to her since saterday, no contact at all. but her friends told me shes on my fb alot. like she searchs my name up more then anyone else. and i checked, and she still logs onto our email that we shared. and shes still wearing my hoodie. so my question is, what does this all mean. am i looking to much into her looking me up and still wearing my cloths? shes told multiple people she has wont date this new guy cuz hes younger but idk. im still in love with her and trying to make sense of this all. i am thinking of giving her space, its almost been a week since we last spoke, maybe a little longer then send her a text?
Philosoraptor Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Look, you are nothing but an option. She has had no issue dropping you in the past for other people and will continue to do so in the future if you ever end up back with her. Nothing but a waste of time. Take care of yourself, heal up, and move on. In time you will find someone who will fully commit to you. 1
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