Guitarisgood Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Date 1: A festival before we snuck onto the beach at night and skinny dipped. I went for the kiss that was the most comical in the water. She loved it. Told me she had so much fun. Date 2: Took her to the museum (she likes that kind of stuff). After we wandered around the city at night before hitting up the central park, lying in each others arm staring at the sky. This date was heavy even for me with the amount of kissing, cosying and making out. Throughout these dates, we act almost like 5 year olds. Lots of sillyness interspersed with deep and meaningful conversations and the like. During the second date she scolded me and wouldn't let me pay for anything after I'd paid for everything up til that point. So now date 3: we've got exams coming up so I invited her back to mine for a night of movies and some study. She was super keen. I know of the third date rule but I'm not one to push for anything. At the same time, I don't want to pressure her into anything she does not want to do. At the same time, I wanted to know what would a girl be thinking about a third date such as this? Would she be one for thinking about what we'd be doing that night? Or see it just as movies, study and the like?
Ninjainpajamas Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 All you need to know is what she was "super keen" about it, so it seems fine for her. Does that mean you have to pressure for something more to happen or even make something happen? no, just like everything else so far, go with the flow, don't have the expectations of what is going to happen...this is not a race, if it feels right then go for it, if she's not ready then she'll probably drop some hints...if she is ready, she'll leave the gates of Babylon wide open.
d0nnivain Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I don't think there is a 3rd date rule. Personally I wouldn't be ready for sex that soon but I also wouldn't have gone skinny dipping on the 1st date so she isn't me. You can try but don't get all mad if she's not ready yet. 1
madjac74 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 When you say "act like 5 year olds", you aren't far off are you?
mammasita Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I personally wouldnt put out on a 3rd date nor would I feel comfortable going to someones house that I was serious about pursuing a relationship with that soon......BUT you guys are young so what I'm saying is probably irrelevant and you won't listen anyway......LOL 1
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