ccryder Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I started a new thread cause I thought many don't see the older threads. Sorry if this is a no-no. My original post: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/437395-male-like-female#post5316258 Update to my post: What I forgot to mention is she asked me to start going to her sons hockey/football games and to have dinner with her kids in addition to us texting each other constantly everyday (which she enjoyed) throughout all this except for the last couple weeks. We talked on the phone at night for hours (when she could have been doing homework).Just for some additional info and an idea of the kind of person this is: she told me she has a lot of guy friends, told me not to hang on to her in public so much, and just started going to the gym (at least never mentioned doing it before). So, last week she called me back and said we should break up cause she cant give me what I want (basically just a girlfriend). I asked her why she went on a dating site where we met and her reply was she originally just wanted someone to "hang out with". She has plenty of friends, and according to her male friends. Now, I was in an awkward state of mind and asked her why didn't she say so and that I could give that to her. So, she texted me today after not talking for a week and I told her I made a mistake and that was my emotions talking. I don't want a FB (didn't say that part to her). I had feelings for her and if she has feelings for me then it makes no sense to do that. But, I sent her an email today and told her and said I just wanted to be clear and asked if that is what she wanted (someone to sleep with , no strings attached). She said that's not what she said and we are supposed to talk more tomorrow. So , my question is where is the in between here? There isn't one in my opinion. U either have a relationship or you are FB's. Now, am I safe to say that she is 1)crazy/confused 2)trying to play me 3)with someone else or 4)both. I'm 90% sure she's messing with my mind. I think my curiousity is killing me as to what happens next. Im not a drama lover, but If you people knew how we were up to this (like a almost perfect happy couple).......It's like jekyl and hyde, flip of a switch, etc. Thanks for reading and any replies
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