geegee81 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Hey everyone. I hope you all are doing better. I just wanted to share a dream that I had last night. Help me figure out the meaning Last night I had a creepy dream about my ex. I only remember a small section of it and then I woke up. In the dream I attended a party with my social organization. When I arrived at the party I saw several picture books laying on the table with members pictures in it. As I flipped through the pages, my ex was on every page and the caption said deceased. Every picture had the word deceased under it. So he was dead in my dreams. I wasn’t upset about it and I didn’t cry. What do you think the meaning of this dream was?
forgetmenot75 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I think your dream is great. your ex is dead for you. Awesome 1
Sugarkane Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I find dreams so interesting, but don't often remember mine! Sounds pretty standard, it's your brain trying to work out everything thats happened to you. I get these dreams after a bad breakup too. 1
Confusedguy81 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 dreams are telling you to move on=) 2
Author geegee81 Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 Thanks for the response everybody. Ive never had a dream about a person being dead before, so my imagination must have been running wild last night. I actually woke up happy and content afterwards. Maybe my dreams are telling me its time to move on and let go. 1
Author geegee81 Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 I wish I would dream my ex was dead. Honestly it sounds crazy, but the dream was relieving... I don know why, but i felt relieved in the dream as i saw his pictures and saw that he was dead. like someone said above, its just a way of my mind working things out.
greenfairie Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I love interpreting dreams. I think your dream's showing you that you've truly moved on from your ex emotionally. The fact you didn't cry shows that you've come a long way from the breakup and you are no longer longing for the ex. It's a great thing. This is all my opinion. I'm not a professional dream analyzer haha. 1
HorseLuck Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I dreamt that my ex asked for reconciliation today. While I woke up glad, it quickly dissipated into sadness. But, it wasn't a heavy sadness. Consider your dream a blessing. Sounds like you're subconscious trying to soothe you. 1
devilish innocent Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Have you been trying not to think about him or the break-up? We're more likely to dream about things when we're purposefully suppressing our thoughts about them. It's likely your mind just dwelling on the fact that he's gone.
sambo77 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Death dreams are intriguing Geegee. I guess the simple interpretation of them is that they represent an "ending." I think that it would be obvious to say "Ahhh...this means I've accepted he's gone and have now moved on." Which may be true. But I think this is something you were close to consciously recognising anyway...and dreams are often indicators of something subconscious we were less aware of....or did not want to see. Often in psychoanalysis such dreams are also interpreted more deeply in relation to THE SELF. So, the end of your relationship with your ex also means the end of a part of YOU, the part of Geegee that was "alive," vibrant, and very much "brought out" by being with your ex. And the part that lost out when he ended the relationship. What might that part have been? What side of YOU did he allow to thrive? Every relationship brings out a unique dimension of US that dies when the relationship dies...what part of YOU died with him? How will your existence be without that side of you? That might be your starting point for further analysis of this... Or...you're just glad to be rid of the a££hole :-)
Author geegee81 Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 Have you been trying not to think about him or the break-up? We're more likely to dream about things when we're purposefully suppressing our thoughts about them. It's likely your mind just dwelling on the fact that he's gone. Hi, i was not trying to suppress memories of him. I can now freely think about him and the breakup without become upset. I was actually thinking of the breakup that night before i went to bed. After i had the dream, i woke up content and relieved. And ive felt great every since .
Author geegee81 Posted November 14, 2013 Author Posted November 14, 2013 Death dreams are intriguing Geegee. I guess the simple interpretation of them is that they represent an "ending." I think that it would be obvious to say "Ahhh...this means I've accepted he's gone and have now moved on." Which may be true. But I think this is something you were close to consciously recognising anyway...and dreams are often indicators of something subconscious we were less aware of....or did not want to see. Often in psychoanalysis such dreams are also interpreted more deeply in relation to THE SELF. So, the end of your relationship with your ex also means the end of a part of YOU, the part of Geegee that was "alive," vibrant, and very much "brought out" by being with your ex. And the part that lost out when he ended the relationship. What might that part have been? What side of YOU did he allow to thrive? Every relationship brings out a unique dimension of US that dies when the relationship dies...what part of YOU died with him? How will your existence be without that side of you? That might be your starting point for further analysis of this... Or...you're just glad to be rid of the a££hole :-) Hey sambo I love the input about my dreams! I wish i could find a website that had accurate information about dream analysis. I only remember about 5 dreams a year, but im always interested in finding out the true meanings of them. About being alive and vibrant....I am that person without the ex. My ex honestly made me dull and sad, but i just wanted to be around him. I think that i was more infatuated with being "in love" than with him as a person. He was not fun to be around. It was like walking on egg shells most of the time. The only part of me that was alive with the ex was my sex life lol. I was celibate for 2 years before sleeping with him. So this dream may be symbolic for the end of my sex life lol:lmao: But I can definitely say that i woke up from that dream with a smirk on my face..... I was content!
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