Richardc23 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Hey everyone. I have only just entered this site. So forgive me for bad placement of this thread. I have been in a short long distance relationship with.. well the girl of my dreams. and she has said she'll love me forever, never want us to end bladdy blah. Here is the issue. I'm 18. So I have a lot of freedom. She is 16, therefore she does not.. her mum had threatened to kick her out of the house over a week ago if she didn't break up with me. So sadly.. heartbroken as we both were. we had to split. Now.. what I don't get is since then she is really short in her replies.. not very affectionate. Her mum doesn't allow us to talk at all I think. so that may be why. I plan on making a big push to get to where she is so I can be there for her. But she seems to think she isn't good enough for me. I deserve better. or she has let me down because she broke up with me. Yes I admit I was devastated that she made that choice. but it would have meant her being kicked out.. I think.. anyway. She has been snappy and a bit defensive over text every now and then.. sometimes I get a bit paranoid that maybe she only broke up with me to see other guys but I was wrong. I see her as the perfect one. but she doesn't see it herself. which upsets me.. because she rejects it all the time.. I'm her first serious boyfriend. her previous one used her to get over an ex. Some attempts at sabotage of our relationship have been made before by her "friends" and one nearly worked. but I managed to hav her forgive me which was brilliant. but now after a week of us being apart she feels like she isn't good enough for me. saying I shouldn't go to her and things like that. then the next minute she is saying she doesn't know what to feel. she wants to be with me. and she wants things to work out so her parents let us be together. I guess I would like to ask her help in that department.. what would be the best way of letting her know I think she is worth it. regardless of what my family members have said. Also what would be the best way to get her to express herself again? The dry conversations we have upset me even more. As we used to text all the time. Able to express ourselves. I have met her in person recently after the break up. and she still kisses me. She still hugs me and holds my hand. and I can still make her smile. nothing really went wrong with the relationship. its just that her mum and dad mainly didn't want us to be together because "there is just something they don't like about me" I don't need to seek her approval but her parents approval would be nice so she doesn't feel under pressure when they ask her who she has been with which is fine. I'm hoping somebody can help. As I am completely lost. I want her to love me again. I want her to know im going to be there. and I want her to realise just how much I actually love her. I'm just hoping she doesn't let me down by lying to me. She really is the best thing since sliced bread. I cant stop thinking about her. Now I know she needs me there with her.. So..is shse playing games with me? cheating on me? I don't think so.. but if you think so tell me. I love her to pieces though. Nothing any of you say here will change that.
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