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I've used my post breakup time


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To meet new friends. I've met two new female friends that could provide networking opportunities to date their friends. Feels great, no pressures of dating! I realize that in my last relationship that I neglected what matters most, friends and family. They will always be there for you.

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Friends and family really are!

 

I remember having a thought like that while out with my friends for dinner tonight. I think it is the first time that I have been able to 100 percent completely enjoy myself (and not have at least passing thoughts of wishing that he, or at least, some guy I was in a relationship with and knew and trusted really well creep in).

 

Watching them goof off and be crazy (they are two guys, so they get really, you know, like guys do), and laughing with them. It was great.

 

And I, too, thought about how much I neglected them during my relationship. And wondered, if I hadn't, maybe I would have been able to derive more comfort from them afterwards, and been able to spend less time wishing that my ex were with me, and more time enjoying my time with them, right after the breakup.

 

Good post and good thoughts!

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