Zezima Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 describe your ideal man/woman. Remember most of us arne't going to find this "ideal" partner but let's just say you had an ideal partner, what would they be/look like? My ideal girl would be. Intelligent Nice Patient and empathetic Somewhat of a nerd and non-conformist. Plays a musical insturment or sings Cute Face Pretty Eyes Short to low-average height. (4 ft 11 to 5 ft 3) A nice body Not too skinny but not too fat A nice backside A feminine voice
happykat Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 (edited) Hmm, let's see.. My ideal man: Smart Quick, sarcastic and funny Non Judgemental Non Racist Non Angry Dude Plays guitar and writes loves songs for me Wide Shoulders Over 5'8" Firm body Showers regularly Brushes teeth at least twice a day Respects women Fixes my car Has a goatee and tattoos Dark Hair Tells me that I'm beautiful/smart/funny/sexy A LOT Loyal Laughs at himself.. and everyone else edit-- and need to add, based on recent experience: enjoys oral sex, not just receiving but GIVING as well affectionate lives within a 12 miles radius Edited November 13, 2013 by happykat forgot a couple
MrCastle Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I can't speak on the physical because life has shown me, time and time again, that it's about the person and who they are deep down. Their personality. Do I have preferences? Sure, but really, when I envision my dream girl, I don't really envision someone in the physical sense. I just see a good person who meshes well with my lifestyle and personality. What would her personality be like? I prefer someone smart. Someone loyal and responsible. Maturity is a big thing for me and most women my age are far from that. So finding a mature woman would be a delight. She has to be overwhelmingly liberal in most, if not all aspects of her life. I can't be with someone who is not a liberal/progressive thinker. I would want her to be creative as I myself am a creative type. She has to be feminine as I'm not into girls who think that being feminine means they're setting the sisterhood back 50 years. Sense of humor is really important too as I can be a real goof ball sometimes and I need someone who will enjoy that. Overall I just want a good person. Whom I have chemistry with. Shorter than me, taller than me, white, black, hispanic, asian, red head, brunette, blonde, skinny, curvy, etc -- I really don't care. I can appreciate all the different kinds of women life offers so as long as I find her personally attractive, I don't care what she looks like. 5
Eternal Sunshine Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I can't speak on the physical because life has shown me, time and time again, that it's about the person and who they are deep down. Their personality. Do I have preferences? Sure, but really, when I envision my dream girl, I don't really envision someone in the physical sense. I just see agood person who meshes well with my lifestyle and personality. What would her personality be like? I prefer someone smart. Someone loyal and responsible. Maturity is a big thing for me and most women my age are far from that. So finding a mature woman would be a delight. She has to be overwhelmingly liberal in most, if not all aspects of her life. I can't be with someone who is not a liberal/progressive thinker. I would want her to be creative as I myself am a creative type. She has to be feminine as I'm not into girls who think that being feminine means they're setting the sisterhood back 50 years. Sense of humor is really important too as I can be a real goof ball sometimes and I need someone who will enjoy that. Overall I just want a good person. Whom I have chemistry with. Shorter than me, taller than me, white, black, hispanic, asian, red head, brunette, blonde, skinny, curvy, etc -- I really don't care. I can appreciate all the different kinds of women life offers so as long as I find her personally attractive, I don't care what she looks like. You are getting boring 3
MrCastle Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 You are getting boring Lol -- too late to change my answer to a juicy ass and brown hair? 2
lino Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 A woman who is accountable for her actions and the consequences that follow them. Unfortunately they aren't common.
soccerrprp Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 My late wife AND the woman I'm dating now. 6
Eternal Sunshine Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Highly intelligent Stable Reliable Honest Not a sweet talker High sex drive Affectionate Hard body Dark hair/eyes 1
soccerrprp Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Highly intelligent Stable Reliable Honest Not a sweet talker High sex drive Affectionate Hard body Dark hair/eyes My late wife AND the woman I'm dating now! 2
bumpyroad Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 (edited) Physical chemistry. Emotional maturity/emotional intelligence. Don't take themselves or the world too seriously. Got to have things in common/the sharing of everyday pleasures. Good taste in music, or at least be passionate about music. I know it shouldn't matter but naff taste in music just turns me off. Brown eyes and brown hair, ideally with grey flecks. The Italian/Spanish look would be a dream come true. I can't be doing with bald men, although I've tried it just turns me off. Someone who doesn't boast about materialism and all the AHHMAAZZZING places they've travelled to as a way of asserting their status. That sort of BS posturing is as insufferable to me as stupidity or sleaziness. Northern (Yorkshire/Manchester) accents make me go weak at the knees so that'd be another dream come true. Someone who doesn't say things for the sake of it, or because they think it's what I want to hear. Similarly, someone who makes promises without real intentions of carrying them through, i.e put up or shut up. Any control-freakery, manipulation or passive-aggression has me running for the hills. My ultimate specific fantasy man, not that I'm ever gonna find him, is tall, slim (athletic but not puny), a tree-surgeon or gardener by day, a musician by night, gentle and quiet (but not too quiet), lives on a narrow boat, loves cats and dogs, arty, a dreamer, has the same taste as me in books and films, accepts and adores me for who I am, and whom I equally accept and adore. Edited November 13, 2013 by bumpyroad typo 2
f1asr88 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 (edited) Physical chemistry. Emotional maturity/emotional intelligence. Don't take themselves or the world too seriously. Got to have things in common/the sharing of everyday pleasures. Good taste in music, or at least be passionate about music. I know it shouldn't matter but naff taste in music just turns me off. Brown eyes and brown hair, ideally with grey flecks. The Italian/Spanish look would be a dream come true. I can't be doing with bald men, although I've tried it just turns me off. Someone who doesn't boast about materialism and all the AHHMAAZZZING places they've travelled to as a way of asserting their status. That sort of BS posturing is as insufferable to me as stupidity or sleaziness. Northern (Yorkshire/Manchester) accents make me go weak at the knees so that'd be another dream come true. Someone who doesn't say things for the sake of it, or because they think it's what I want to hear. Similarly, someone who makes promises without any intention of carrying them through, i.e put up or shut up. Any control-freakery, manipulation or passive-aggression has me running for the hills. My ultimate specific fantasy man, not that I'm ever gonna find him, is tall, slim (athletic but not puny), a tree-surgeon or gardener by day, a musician by night, gentle and quiet (but not too quiet), lives on a narrow boat, loves cats and dogs, arty, a dreamer, has the same taste as me in books and films, accepts and adores me for who I am, and whom I equally accept and adore. Haha, well my grandparents are Italian, so I'm dark haired and Italian named.. and I'm from Yorkshire, athletic but muscular, a gardener, quiet, but that's all.. I live on dry land, in a house, and like sport and have a BBC accent I'm afraid, and as for my taste in music.. Edited November 13, 2013 by f1asr88 1
f1asr88 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 My ideal girl would be similar to me in terms of personality, so fairly quiet and shy, kind hearted, thoughtful. I would like a girl to be fairly intelligent, so we could talk about anything on a decent level. I'd like a feminine girl who prefers to spend weekends going to nice places, being outdoors, going for meals out as opposed to going out on the lash on a regular basis. A shared interest in sport/ keep fit would be a bonus too. Those are the most important ones for me... In terms of physical characteristics, I'm not picky at all, but I suppose I do find Italian/Spanish girls with long, dark wavy hair to be incredibly attractive. Having said all that, if I could find a girl who could make pasta fagioli as well as my grandmother did, she'd have me for life!
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bumpyroad Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 fairly quiet and shy, kind hearted, thoughtful. I would like a girl to be fairly intelligent, so we could talk about anything on a decent level. I'd like a feminine girl who prefers to spend weekends going to nice places, being outdoors, going for meals out as opposed to going out on the lash on a regular basis. A shared interest in sport/ keep fit would be a bonus too. Those are the most important ones for me... In terms of physical characteristics, I'm not picky at all, but I suppose I do find Italian/Spanish girls with long, dark wavy hair to be incredibly attractive. Having said all that, if I could find a girl who could make pasta fagioli as well as my grandmother did, she'd have me for life! Er... ...you've just described me right there, and I'm half-Spanish with long, dark hair. No idea about the Fagioli though. helps me pwn noobz in Runescape Help who with the what now? 1
colombiana28 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 he doesn't have to be in GREAT physical shape, but not fat, and no moobs. I appreciate a cute face with laugh lines and bright, passionate eyes. height definitely negotiable...but I don't know about shorter than me (5'5). as for non-physical characteristics, confidence is a MUST. confidence includes the ability to let rejection/negativity roll off of you because you have the experience under your belt to not sweat the small stuff. it means having a circle of friends and a full life of your own, not looking for some woman to magically complete you. having your own passions, hobbies, and goals that you talk about with a sparkle in your eye. someone I have to win over by proving that i'm awesome, too. someone who takes things slow physically (of his own volition) and knows 90% of foreplay is the conversation and teasing that happens when conversing with someone. an unselfish lover, who appreciates my unselfishness, too. someone who's honest, but not to a fault. someone who wholly respects me, but knows how to make me feel like a woman and enjoys me making him feel like a man...
Shepp Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 haha im going to be super super picky now - dark hair - 5"2 - 5"5 - athletic looking - nice smile - bright eyes - great laugh...you know how some people have a cracking laugh - feisty - passionate - up for anything - outdoorsy - honest - enjoys the simple things - funny - loyal - an accent...i'm not that fussy but I do like a Geordie accent. - doesn't take herself too seriously - likes my family - an easy talker....not just to me but finds it easy to talk to everyone - shares some common interests with me - isn't too clingy, controlling, jealous or anything like that Is that enough??
superb Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Perfect to me would be... Trustworthy Reliable Very smart...I want him to teach me things I don't know already. Funny, goofy, silly Tall....over 5'9 Compassionate Loving Kind but not a pushover He'll have to love my children also obviously Affectionate-this is very important as well as having high sexual desires Must be independent and into his own things as well Idc much about hair but no long hair or Mullets lol
Narcissistic Nobody Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Tallish Attractive Manly, but not a caveman Sensitive and caring Thoughtful and understanding Adventurous Funny...(must have) Minimum baggage Sexual
f1asr88 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Er... ...you've just described me right there, and I'm half-Spanish with long, dark hair. No idea about the Fagioli though. Not to worry, cookery can be learnt! 1
Harradin Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Hmm I used to be really picky but now: - As long as I personally found them physically attractive, I don't care imho. I love a girl with long hair though, I won't say no to a girl with short hair but long hair looks so hot on a woman . - She has to put up with me, as I'm pretty spontaneous, mischievous and playful! I can be immature but my mature side cancels it out! - Loyalty is a big one for me, I'd like her to stand by me but at the same time, I'd want her to tell me it straight, I'm pretty blunt myself. - If she loves me as much as I'll love her, she's a keeper. - And tbh, I'd like her to just have her own personality/quirks, otherwise it gets boring!
WaitingforMrRight Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Ideal? Ok... - Tall...ideally 6' or over, but would settle for at least 5'9" - Big. Not like, majorly obese, but broad shouldered and between 180-260 lbs. I'm not fat but not thin either, and like to feel dainty and feminine when with a man. I want him to wrap his arms around me like a big bear. - Masculine - physically and personality-wise. NOTHING turns me off like an effeminate man. - I prefer darker features, or dark features and light eyes. Other stuff... Humble but assertive; confident but not cocky. Not arrogant or self-centered, and definitely not boring. Chivalrous. Romantic, but not over the top cheesy about it. Reliable. Stable. Not cheap or money-obsessed. Tells me how beautiful I am and how much he appreciates me. Has a decent sex drive. Open minded, liberal-leaning, and likes to travel. Likes food and likes to eat.
RogerWallace111 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 OK, may as well get picky as it's hypothetical... ~ intelligent/perceptive (not talking education but innate mental sensitivity) ~ sense of humor - honestly I've only known several females in my entire life who truly crack me up, so not necessarily a comedian as much as one who just loves to laugh at/with me:) ~ feminine in demeanor (not fragile or fussy- she's gotta be into the outdoor activities- but not a tom boy personality-wise) ~ kind/empathetic and lacking the capacity for primal bitterness/hatred that so many women my age seem to have. ~ ability to calm and soothe me when I'm out of wack ~ significantly more positive-thinking than negative ~ honest, straightforward ~ not particularly jealousy-prone or insecure (there are times it's reasonable to be both but when it's a motif... :/) ~ kisses incredibly, makes love the same and physically, ideally : ~ beautiful to my taste, and uniquely so (I'm not talking any girl with small facial features who gets hit on at the bar) Maybe of mixed ethnic heritage... ~ brunette, shorter length ~ nice skin ~ booty ~ medium/small-ish height ~ and since were talking "ideal"... an aesthetically pleasing vagina & large breasts with silky-soft, medium sized nipples 1
Divasu Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 "Ideal" in what capacity? Sex? Then actor/model/dancer/mma fighter Ryan Guzman Oddly enough, I didn't have those thoughts when I first saw him on TV but after watching him in interviews and seeing his dance moves, ooof. :laugh: In the REAL world, "ideal" is bit different in terms of someone you want to share your life with, are compatible with, shared core values, etc.
Phantom888 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 My SO, who I hope will be my wife by this time next year. Intelligent Curvy Blonde Light-eyes Funny high sex drive Curious Career-driven Great Mom Beautiful smile Big juicy butt Nice, big natural boobs Adventurous Tech Geeky And a bunch of wonderful qualities I never knew I desired. 1
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