desperategirl Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 So I met a guy, we've been on five dates. He was away on business for a bit, but got in touch the night he got back. We've slept together on two seperate occassions. It was great, really, really good. I was really happy he spent the night too, as he has to get up crazy early then commute over two hours to work, so that seemed positive. After sex, he wanted to talk, kind of stuff about what we are like, personal traits and stuff. It was nice. This all seems quite positive, right? So I'm hoping to go out with him again, and planning to get in touch with him tomorrow in reply to one of his messages. Where to go from here? When does dating become a relationship? How to bring this stuff up? It's fun sometimes, but it's so stressful too!
clia Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 So I met a guy, we've been on five dates. He was away on business for a bit, but got in touch the night he got back. We've slept together on two seperate occassions. It was great, really, really good. I was really happy he spent the night too, as he has to get up crazy early then commute over two hours to work, so that seemed positive. After sex, he wanted to talk, kind of stuff about what we are like, personal traits and stuff. It was nice. This all seems quite positive, right? I guess, if you think sleeping with a guy when you aren't in an exclusive relationship is positive. It's hard to say from your post how he's feeling. You've been on five dates over what period of time? Does he contact you every day (or nearly every day)? Has he taken you out on Saturday night? Is he lining up dates with you in advance? Is he talking about things you will do together in the future? Has he mentioned Thanksgiving plans yet? (If you are American.) So I'm hoping to go out with him again, and planning to get in touch with him tomorrow in reply to one of his messages. Has he asked you out again? Where to go from here? When does dating become a relationship? How to bring this stuff up? It's fun sometimes, but it's so stressful too! It is stressful. Let him lead. Dating becomes a relationship when both people decided it is going to be a relationship. Wait for him to bring it up.
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