Vero Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Long story short, This girl at my high school and I were flirting a couple weeks ago. I, being extremely inexperienced with girls, did not realize that she was showering me with queues to ask her to be her boyfriend like "I never kissed a guy without braces", or inviting me to her house and flirting with me. I only finally realized my errors after the "flirtiness" had left. Now we only meet after a class we have at school. I've kind of lost the courage to talk to her because she's less flirty with me, and I know it's my fault for not making the big move. We don't talk much anymore but I've met her parents and everything and things very much seem like they could still work if I play my cards right. I just don't know what to do now. Every time that class ends. I'm super nervous. I feel like I should walk up to her and talk, but I'm horrible with conversations. I also don't know what I should do from there. What do I do after we start talking again? I would want to ask her on a date but that would seem too strong to do right after a class (I've done it before but that was when we were really close). Thanks!
todreaminblue Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 hey vero, everyone at one time or another has had lack of conversing skills when it is someone they like...dont know if you should go for the ask on a date thing first up ....but definitely talk to her and ease yourself in there to ask...take it slow, let her pick up the beat fo the conversation.....if she likes you she will make it easy on you regardless of what has happened in the past...she will be interested in talking to you if feelings exist for you on her behalf....if they dont you have your answer....... pick a topic you are both interested in to start something that was spoken about in class or a passion you both share...... let the conversation do its own thing, and tangent off that is how you get flow and longer conversations do not try and control it.by bringing it back to wher it was...if it dies reidrect it.......let it tangent wherever it may go conversations becoem lively when you do this.....you can joke around..... ...if you see an opening or something jogs your memory about something you could do together that is mentioned a movie coming up a game that is on...a lecture you migth want to attend...take your leap in an offhand way expect a no hope for a yes...if its no try again next time.........if you feel comfortable that is and she is carryign the covnersation as well making it easy, other wise remember it for next time...look her in the eyes when she speaks to you, be interested, be calm./....dont expect her to flirt..........best wishes.....deb
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