the tank Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 I've broke up three months ago . Since one week, I choose to delete her phone number and no more social media stalking.I even block her. We didn't talk since the beginning of october . Last friday , a girl flake on me. I didnt really care but that make me think about my situation. Sometimes I'm jealous of happy couple together. I miss the relationship I had . I need to learn to be a happy single man before thinking of a relationship. I dont miss my ex because she was a compulsive liar and manipulate me when we broke up by playing the victim.. I trust her world at first but she came clean fews weeks after... The thing that hurt me the most is that I've saw warning signs from the beginning but choose to not talk to her about . Could that realtionship make me unable to trust people ? How to be happy again ? How to not be jealous of other ?
d0nnivain Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Some of it takes time. Being gun shy right off the bat is normal; it doesn't mean you lost the ability to trust but it may have given you more tools to spot fakers. To be happy again, do non-dating things that make you happy. Refocus on your hobbies or get a new hobby. Work over time or get a second job to make more money / pay off debt. Do some kind of self improvement activity: work out, dye your hair, learn a new language.
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