mendsley Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Yesterday I felt good, didn't think about the ex that much and felt like maybe I should try the online dating scene. Man, that is some cut-throat **** right there. There are beutiful women on there, but it's almost like you have to fit a specific mold for them to respond. I've chatted with a few girls, but conversation was dull. After that experience I feel like why even bother. Not sure whats going on, but I keep think about the last thing the ex told me "I will be alone and she is highly sought after." Maybe she's right? I keep thinking she will have no problen finding someone while it will take me awhile. Doesn't seem fair that someone who can easily throw away a relationship can easily move on. Hopefully tomorrow will be better.
Philosoraptor Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Come on man, stay away from online dating... and surely don't take your self esteem from there. What she said was her way of propping herself up when leaving, may have also been made to take a cheap shot at you and knock you down. Sure, she's highly saught after if it means allowing strange men to use her body... but women have as hard of a time finding a good partner as men do. Regardless, neither her nor these strangers online have anything to do with your ability to find a potential mate. Right now you need to focus on yourself. If you want to date, just meet people out places that you should be going anyways to keep your spirits up. Just do what makes you happy and if there is a woman there who interests you, then talk to her. 1
Author mendsley Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 Thank you very much for your response. I always value your feedback. And you're right, the ex was saying those things to get me fired up and I guess it worked. I'm deleting my online dating profile and laying low until all these emotions subside. Then I will take another route when trying to meet somone. Thanks again :-)
Reels Posted November 14, 2013 Posted November 14, 2013 Same way i feel as well. Ex used to say, when she was all good, that i will find a lot better girl than her, although she wasn't sure if she could find better than me. She probably hurt me the most later on, and whoever i talked after her, it was all talk, i couldn't ever feel even 1/9999999 of affection that i had for her. I pretty much think that she is ruining her own life, she is obviously having hard time and later on, she will suffer a lot, because no one in world will ever want her to be happy.. She's not like a fox either, she will be cheated/played in her life a lot.. But however she will be, she may never want to see me. Don't know why.
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