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20 years old dating a 17 year old?


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In my country the legal age of consent is 16 so i don't think this would be illegal. Also she turns 18 in 3 months and she's really mature for her age. What do you guys think? I don't know what people will think, my family and friends so I'm kind of hesitant.

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She's already 18.

 

She finished her 17th year at her 17th birthday, then began her 18th year. Her 18th birthday will mark the end of her 18th year and her embarking on her 19th....

So your question is merely a technicality.

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A three year age gap isn't huge but what is the life stage gap? At 17 is she still in high school / secondary school? Where are you in your education? Once you are out in the world working & building a life, will you still want to be with a student? How will her perspective on the world change once she starts university? In America where the drinking age is 21, three year gaps when one person can go to bars & clubs but the other can't often causes huge drama & jealousy.

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3 years is nothing, especially if 16 is the age of consent. There's not really much to worry about. My husband and I were 16 and 22. :laugh:

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I would say wait before you two do it. Get to know her as a person really well first. The reason I say this is because a relationship is better if its not only focused on sex. Plus sex is better when its with someone you love.

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You love her, go 4 it! Live a life what both of you want, not what others expecting from you! Best of luck with your girlfriend! :)

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