SeCkZy_AnGeL Posted December 20, 2004 Posted December 20, 2004 I have been with my boyfriend for just over month now. Yeah we have had a few differences but managed to overcome them.I'm 15 and starting off with dating. I don't know how to take this though so i need some advice. My boyfriend has this neighbour who's younger than him that he used to like. I kind of joke around with him about it and i see him laughing and its all good. We attended his dad's wedding the other day and she was there. When we were in the car he comments about her ass being cute. How the hell am i suppose to take that? I went all silent and upset cause it hurt you know. He then turned it on me saying about i always joke about them and he then says i was joking about her ass. I knew he was lying and i said you were serious. I was right he was being serious. He kept on trying to suck up and hold my hand and turn my face to look at him. I couldnt do it, it hurt to much. When we got back to his house he was all upset cause he hurt me and then i decided to actually show some affection towards him. He once again turned it on me and said ooo feeling sorry for me now. I yelled at him which i feel bad about and told him i don't want to hear about his thoughts on other girls. The arguement went on and some stuff about my family came up how he doesnt like them and all this other stuff. We're still not talking and i don't know what to do or what to say? I'm hurt and annoyed. What the hell does my family have to do with it? Why does he always turn it back on me after he's said something stupid?
Debster Posted December 20, 2004 Posted December 20, 2004 You've only been going out with him for a month and he is already treating you badly. Move on and find someone who won't be an idiot.
mlncoolj2000 Posted December 20, 2004 Posted December 20, 2004 Well I am 15, and i have a b/f that will be 18 in feb. We have been dating for 2 1/2 months now. He has never done that before. Maybe you need to move on and date someone that is a little bit older. I will be 16 in july, and i will be a junior next year. It all depends on what grade your in if you date someone older. You have to be mature to do that too. And it has to be okay with your parents!
Starry_Night Posted December 20, 2004 Posted December 20, 2004 I think you had a right to be hurt by his comment. He knew that you knew he liked her before and for him to be not only checking her out but to make a comment on her body in front of you, actually to you is very disrespectful. You are only 15 and though you may like this boy you should find someone who will respect you and not make you feel bad when you two are out together or any other time for that matter.
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