Gloria25 Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Ok, I do online dating and for guys who don't have pictures on their profile I ask that if they can send me some pics... Well, sometimes I don't receive a response, but I'll see that they have posted some pics on their profile. If they post pics without responding to me, does it mean that the ball is in my court and I have to respond to them (i.e. "Nice pic", "I checked out your pic", etc.)? Thanks,
Keenly Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Well if a guy can't even give you the time of day to respond to you, that should be enough of an answer. 4
countryrider13 Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 if they don't respond maybe they're not interested. I would say he probobly just added pics on his profile for his own benefit to attract more people to talk to.
Author Gloria25 Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 Well if a guy can't even give you the time of day to respond to you, that should be enough of an answer. I got you and feel the same, but do you think that they are afraid that you're not gonna find them attractive, so they post the pic and sit back and wait to see if you respond? I mean, I've heard guys talk about how they risk rejection when it comes to dating.
winny Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 I would say instead of worrying about all this, think about the guys who respond to you
Locust Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Ok, I do online dating and for guys who don't have pictures on their profile I ask that if they can send me some pics... Well, sometimes I don't receive a response, but I'll see that they have posted some pics on their profile. If they post pics without responding to me, does it mean that the ball is in my court and I have to respond to them (i.e. "Nice pic", "I checked out your pic", etc.)? Thanks, I had a lady asked for my photo on Datehookup and I sent her the photo and she never replied to me again. It can kind of hurt the guy ego and I will admit it hurts if some does not find you attractive because you feel not wanted. So if another women were to ask for my photo on the site would I give her a photo? Probably note. Maybe I will do what the other guy did, just post a photo and let the next bate come and get it.
ScreamingTrees Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 I'd be surprised that someone, male or especially female, even bothered to ask a photo-less dating profile for a photo. Who clicks on those profiles? lol 1
devilish innocent Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I don't see what you've got to lose by sending out another nice message saying you saw the picture and liked it. Even if you don't hear back, it's only a few seconds of your time, and you've flattered another person. Nobody is going to lose interest just because you sent them a nice message. On the other hand, there's always a chance that someone who was on the fence about contacting you before will decide to do so based on the added compliment.
Phantom888 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 I never respond to women without a picture. When I get matches with women without pictures, I just ignore. 1
FitChick Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Maybe I will do what the other guy did, just post a photo and let the next bate come and get it. If everyone did this, we could all avoid problems.
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