laylay305 Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 so, I had a pretty good first date last week. we were out for three hours, the guy texted me later that night to make sure I got home alright, and we texted for a little while longer. he texted me again the following night, and was kinda flirty, and implied we have to hang out again. the next evening I texted him wishing him and his team (he's a coach) luck at their game. he said thanks, then texted me a few hours later saying they lost. so we talked and he asked for a consolation hug. he also brought up the fact that I should "pick up my phone" this weekend, as it's an indication of how much I want to hug him. so the next night after his favorite college football team lost, I texted asking if he wanted another consolation hug. we chatted most of the night, and he asked what I was doing Sunday. I said I had a few things to get done, but no concrete plans. I suggested maybe we get together and watch some games. so we ended up watching the game, then we decided to grab coffee and go for a walk. during the walk he jokingly touched me, and finally kissed me and we made out a few times. someone was having a bonfire and I said that it looked like fun, so he said he had a fire pit and I told him "ooh, I want to have a bonfire!", then kind of apologized for inviting myself over. he was also supposed to watch a show with some of his friends that night, so I said we didn't have to do anything as I didn't want him to cancel plans with his friends, but he said it wasn't a big deal, they would watch it the next day. so we had a bonfire and then went back inside and watched tv, cuddle made out some more...there was heavy petting, and he tried to take my shirt off but I said I wasn't ready to go there so he backed down. we cuddled and watched more TV before I realized it was around 11 and said I had to get home. so he walked me out to my car and we hugged and he kissed me goodbye. I texted him when I got home telling him I made it home safely. he responded this morning saying "good!" apparently I made it to my bed safely cause I was passed out til about 8:45" to which I responded "haha, it was a strenuous day of watching football, getting lost in the woods, and cuddling. it takes it out of you!" and I haven't heard from him since. we usually don't chat much during the day, and he has gone more than a day without texting. i'm not sure if I did something wrong or blew it though. I was kind of expecting to hear from him tonight. any input? thanks!
Uwaae Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Sounds like you did everything right. If I were you I wouldnt worry about anything. If youre a little nervous, you should call and not text. I'm a guy, and personally, I hate texting, its so stupid to text "How are you?" in my mind, and I think the guy maybe the same type of guy. I either text something practical, or nothing at all. Sounds like its going fine: Please call him if he doesnt call. I say this because, something might have happened in his family that he doesnt want to expose you too, he might be sad, and not want to talk to you and let that come across. But everything so far sounds fine 1
todreaminblue Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 (edited) I agree with uwaaaa everything sounds peachy,life gets busy and he just may be busy not sad or not mad.....sounds like you had fun ....and he gave up his friends for you also, kudos on knowing you weren't ready to go further and boundary put in place.... i am sure he will text or call......if it were me i would wait after a first date second date i would wait for the guy to contact me...didnt think the guy i am dating would and he did.....i tend to sabotage dates....but he has been unwell apparently....that smy scenario i just told him to call me when he was better and we would catch up if he wanted company.....he replied sounds good(nto a huge texter).....and i havent contacted him since .....i am fairly laid back so once i am dating someone i dotn push...dont need to....and i confirm dates set up the night before....military style....lol...locked down...... you replied to his last text so its his turn...his texts are short and to the point.....so points to not a texter.......more a caller....maybe.....give it a couple of days or even a week see what happens at the end of a working week if he is interested in setting up a future date....early days........good luck....deb Edited November 12, 2013 by todreaminblue
Author laylay305 Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 thanks, guys. he did end up texting this morning. i think i was just paranoid cause i'm starting to like this guy. i guess we'll see how it all plays out.
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