shiro kuma Posted December 19, 2004 Posted December 19, 2004 Hi, Okay its like this: since the beginning of my 1st term this year (September) there is this girl who is in two of my classes and she is mighty fine (painting and sculpture) and I don't know how to say it but, I think she is flirting with me . As the months progressed she would always smile at me and say 'Hi, how are you doing?' she would always give me this intrigued sort of look (with her eyes, I like her eyes). I don't know but something is telling me that she may be interested in me (I really don't know what it is about her which makes me so interested) or I could just be dense and she is just trying to be friendly and I shouldn't read into it anymore than that eg. she asks and helps me stretch my canvas for our final painting assignment, and, is giving me those looks . I found out a couple of weeks ago that she is from South Africa (she has an accent), I think that's pretty cool. So, any tips on how I can delve further into knowing more about her (what are some things I could say which she won't think is weird)? note: sorry if this is in the wrong forum. ~thanx
Bohdi10 Posted December 19, 2004 Posted December 19, 2004 I would just start more conversation with her and eventually ask her to hang out. Or if you are nervous to put yourself out there then invite her to a group thing like a party or something. The only way to find out is to pursue her.
Author shiro kuma Posted December 19, 2004 Author Posted December 19, 2004 Well, she went home for Christmas so I won't see her again until classes start up again in January. It got me thinking though, in the new year I'm going to make the effort to show her that I'm interested . *okay....no fear, no fear...*
Author shiro kuma Posted January 8, 2005 Author Posted January 8, 2005 Okay, classes have begun and I have seen her again and the first time I saw her this year she smiled at me, came over and started talking to me and she kept eye contact with me the whole time (asking me how my holidays were and did the same). She is still making eye-contact with me everytime I look at her (and this is for only a couple of seconds at a time, the one time though she looked at me and smiled and I smiled at her). I guess she still must be interested in me if she is still doing the same things as before, right?
Author shiro kuma Posted February 13, 2005 Author Posted February 13, 2005 Anyway, I asked her on Friday if she wanted to hang out sometime next week (spring break) and she said "Yeah, we should" with a big smile. The thing is that we both are very busy with school projects (and she mentoned this since we are taking two of the same classes) and she said that we would probably end up hanging out here (sculpture studio) because thats where the majority of the time she/myself will be for most of next week. Okay so I got the first part down, the only thing now is finding time. I put the offer out there, is it best I just leave it at that or should I still ask her sometime next week? BTW: during a normal week, we practically see each other almost everyday. Also, on another note over the last month when she sees me and makes eye contact (she smiles and waves at me).
Hund1976 Posted February 14, 2005 Posted February 14, 2005 You need to ask her out for a specific date and time now. If she is busy that time but likes you she'll make a counteroffer of another time.
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