petitefleur Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 (edited) Why would a guy not text me for days and then when he does he suggests things we could do/places to go to in future dates? I honestly thought he didn't want to see me anymore. Now I think he isn't really interested in a serious relationship (he said that's what he wants before we met in person) with me but would be down for anything else... as he kept hinting in our last date (2nd date) that we could go to his place. I think he knows I'm not that kind of girl and kind of respects that but he will still try...? He's been flirtier since we met but he texts way less than before we met. To his defense, I kind of told him he texted me way too much and that's why I didn't always reply . This was before we met. I reply faster since I met him. I think he liked me more before we met and I like him more since we met. I don't know if he took the too-much-texting thing too seriously and won't text unless I initiate but I honestly think he's just not that into me. It's hard to accept but what else could it be? Ugh, sorry for this mess of a post. I'm just confused. My friends, girls, hopeless romantics, want me to text him first because he's a Pisces and a hopeless romantic too (he told me this) and I'm a cold Gemini. I refuse to initiate contact every damn day. My ego is too big to beg. Update: Damn you, men. He just texted. Flirting. He didn't reply to me last night and I didn't text him at all today. Seems to work... Still confused. Edited November 12, 2013 by petitefleur updated
d0nnivain Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Stop over analyzing & reading for subtext based upon the amount of time between texts. If you like the guy & he suggests an outing, go if it sounds interesting to you 1
Uwaae Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 If you like this guy, and I sense you do, and if he's a good enough guy, youre just going to have to eat your ego. Plain and simple. I personally hate texting... I dont think texting back and fourth is a guy thing. It may be ok with girls, but not me. If you told him not to text you so much, that could be a BIG thing to him. Anyway, so call him, and you 2 should go out. Dont let your pride win out in love 1
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