Kylie1 Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 So I met this guy a month ago a house party. He lives about 400 miles away from me. He asked me my phone number and we started texting. Not everyday but every other day. So he wanted to meet up and we met at a hotel in another city. We spent 2 days together and it was great. He says he adores me, I'm smart, and funny. After we got back home he texted me and said he wants to meet up again for thanksgiving. While we were talking I was looking for a serous relationship and would like to get to know him. He didn't text me for a day and the said he had to think about it and then he edited me all night making plans with me such as I will cook this for you etc. He left the country for 2 weeks and texted me 3 days ago asking me if I wanted to get drinks when he is back. I said of course. We kept talking and I told him I will conquer his heart. He said I already did but the distance between us bothers him and he said he doesn't know if it's worth the try. I said if things worked out I could think about moving. After a few hours I sent him a picture of a place I was at and said you Shiism have been here. Since then he hasn't texted me anything! It has been 2 days:/ and he is checking his facebook etc so he has obviously has time. What do you guys think? Do I still have a **** with this guy or it sounds like he made up his kind and it is over. Sorry about the long message.
superb Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 So I met this guy a month ago a house party. He lives about 400 miles away from me. He asked me my phone number and we started texting. Not everyday but every other day. So he wanted to meet up and we met at a hotel in another city. We spent 2 days together and it was great. He says he adores me, I'm smart, and funny. After we got back home he texted me and said he wants to meet up again for thanksgiving. While we were talking I was looking for a serous relationship and would like to get to know him. He didn't text me for a day and the said he had to think about it and then he edited me all night making plans with me such as I will cook this for you etc. He left the country for 2 weeks and texted me 3 days ago asking me if I wanted to get drinks when he is back. I said of course. We kept talking and I told him I will conquer his heart. He said I already did but the distance between us bothers him and he said he doesn't know if it's worth the try. I said if things worked out I could think about moving. After a few hours I sent him a picture of a place I was at and said you Shiism have been here. Since then he hasn't texted me anything! It has been 2 days:/ and he is checking his facebook etc so he has obviously has time. What do you guys think? Do I still have a **** with this guy or it sounds like he made up his kind and it is over. Sorry about the long message. I feel like you two may have gotten carried away with talk of moving and stuff. Men get scared of that kinda talk. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 So I met this guy a month ago a house party. He lives about 400 miles away from me. He asked me my phone number and we started texting. Not everyday but every other day. So he wanted to meet up and we met at a hotel in another city. We spent 2 days together and it was great. He says he adores me, I'm smart, and funny. After we got back home he texted me and said he wants to meet up again for thanksgiving. While we were talking I was looking for a serous relationship and would like to get to know him. He didn't text me for a day and the said he had to think about it and then he edited me all night making plans with me such as I will cook this for you etc. He left the country for 2 weeks and texted me 3 days ago asking me if I wanted to get drinks when he is back. I said of course. We kept talking and I told him I will conquer his heart. He said I already did but the distance between us bothers him and he said he doesn't know if it's worth the try. I said if things worked out I could think about moving. After a few hours I sent him a picture of a place I was at and said you Shiism have been here. Since then he hasn't texted me anything! It has been 2 days:/ and he is checking his facebook etc so he has obviously has time. What do you guys think? Do I still have a **** with this guy or it sounds like he made up his kind and it is over. Sorry about the long message. Girl. He told you he wan't so keen on the relationship because of the distance, so you mentioned moving? And you've only known him a month? I think this offer, while well-intended in your part, backfired big time. Don't text him again. If he wants to see you, he knows how to get in touch. You're right about him having time to text; the fact that he's chosen not to speaks volumes. 1
superb Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Girl. He told you he wan't so keen on the relationship because of the distance, so you mentioned moving? And you've only known him a month? I think this offer, while well-intended in your part, backfired big time. Don't text him again. If he wants to see you, he knows how to get in touch. You're right about him having time to text; the fact that he's chosen not to speaks volumes. I agree.....terrible move. Learn from this and never make yourself seem that available and eager again.
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