Author Bandito Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 (edited) You're not just gonna let things go, are ya? When are you going to FINALLY say to yourself, "You know what? This bitch isn't worth it" and move on as if she never existed? And by the way, SHE didn't read the thing 24 times. She read it once and has been showing it to everyone and anyone to garner sympathy for her. Proof that she had to put up with a person "psycho" enough to send that to her. I'm not saying you're psycho, that's how she's probably presenting it to other people. well it shows the IP address and the location on the map. all the same place, at her house. doubt 24 of her friends were there at once. plus theres things in there that she would be embarrassed by and secrets she didn't want anyone knowing. Edited November 12, 2013 by Bandito
Chi townD Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 And friends that she invited over can't see it? Or she punches it up to read it to someone over the phone; word for word?
Author Bandito Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 And friends that she invited over can't see it? Or she punches it up to read it to someone over the phone; word for word? who cares anyways. ppl need to know the truth about her if she did send it. i can find a better girl.
Chi townD Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 who cares anyways. ppl need to know the truth about her if she did send it. i can find a better girl. Then why don't you do that and stop fussing over one that treats you like trash! I mean, too "white" for her? REALLY?!?!? I would have said to that, "You know what? You're right. I just realized that you're too much of a whore for me." Don't say that, I was just venting. Start NC dude. Time to move on from this FINALLY!!! You said your piece, it should be over now. 1
forgetmenot75 Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Do not send anything else! Don't you see you seem desperate? Plus, your words will be there forever. Be careful with what you write. 1
Author Bandito Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 Do not send anything else! Don't you see you seem desperate? Plus, your words will be there forever. Be careful with what you write. don't send anything else, but be careful with what I write?? I just wanted to have peace with her, but she does this stupid stuff.
BC1980 Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 you want to know why i'm so heated. she said i'm just a lesson in her life. i never brought her happiness. just because i'm attractive and nice, doesn't mean s**t. said i'm "too white." thats racist. (i'm biracial, she's not white.) she said "i've been with so many guys, and have so much experience with breakups. and a lot of guys are waiting for me to be single." now she's admitting to being a sl*t. she said i suck at being a boyfriend, and know a few other guys who can do my job better. sounds like she had someone lined up, and just wanted to find a way to get rid of me, even though i didn't do anything wrong. she used every other phony excuse to cut me off. Yet another reason for NC. If you had stopped talking to her, you wouldn't have to hear hurtful things she is saying. I've made the same mistake, but learn from it this time. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 Two immature people doing immature things. Nothing to see here. 2
reddragon588 Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 don't send anything else, but be careful with what I write?? I just wanted to have peace with her, but she does this stupid stuff. If what you said or write could change how she thinks or feels, you wouldn't be here right now. Time to give it up and move on. 1
Author Bandito Posted November 12, 2013 Author Posted November 12, 2013 f*ck it. she's a bitch. why would i even want to be with this empty hollow shell of a woman?!
forgetmenot75 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 f*ck it. she's a bitch. why would i even want to be with this empty hollow shell of a woman?! Because you're addicted to her, and in order to break the addiction, you must go cold turkey. 2
me85 Posted November 13, 2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Don't send it. I foolishly pined & begged & graveled at my exes feet for him to reconsider…wish I would not have. I know exactly how you feel though because I feel the same way about my ex. I wanted so badly for him to regret the things he said did to me. But nothing you say or email or text or whatever is going to make that happen. You want to get it off your chest. I must admit I do feel better about getting things off my chest before going NC though. The way I saw it, it won't hurt anything because neither of us really wants it anymore and one day when there is nothing but silence between us maybe he will reflect on everything & who knows…he might even come back begging at my feet? Point is, I'm not sitting around holding my breath for him to wise up. I know my worth. But I know exactly how you feel. (HUGS) Rejection can be so crippling but you really will be stronger because of this heartache in the end. 1
Author Bandito Posted November 13, 2013 Author Posted November 13, 2013 Because you're addicted to her, and in order to break the addiction, you must go cold turkey. i'm going cold turkey then. i finally put away the pictures of us in a frame, got rid of all the memory triggers in my house. i'm letting go. 1
Author Bandito Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 she said "i no longer have the energy for meaningless relationships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations." bitch. 1
reddragon588 Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 EXcellent she looks like an ass, now you can have the satisfaction of not replying. 1
Author Bandito Posted November 16, 2013 Author Posted November 16, 2013 EXcellent she looks like an ass, now you can have the satisfaction of not replying. its pisses me off that she said we had no meaning. after all we've been through she's acting like nothing happened.
Zahara Posted November 16, 2013 Posted November 16, 2013 its pisses me off that she said we had no meaning. after all we've been through she's acting like nothing happened. People say things when they're mad and when they want to hurt you. You need to stop letting this snowball. Except that it is over and start healing from this. It's done between you two. 2
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