Saurren Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 I've been with my fiance for 4 years now and we just got engaged this summer. I've been dying to tell her my thoughts about her social interactions with her friends or family. An example is whenever we go out to have a dinner or just the two of us hanging out she would text constantly, even in the car and I have to tell her to not drive and text. She won't even pick up her phone or even text me back if she was driving when i call or text, but makes an exception for her friends or family. I told her how I felt and she just said "I'm only doing this because she's been busy with her own stuff and I need to stop intruding". My feelings at this very moment is that she's stopped putting effort into our relationship after 4 years of an exclusive relationship. I don't know if I am going to marry the right women. Have you felt your partner stopped putting effort into a relationship and how did It start or even end?
MidwestUSA Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 Has she been doing this for the entire four years? If so, it should have been addressed much sooner.
Author Saurren Posted November 11, 2013 Author Posted November 11, 2013 I've been going through my journal and this started about 10 months ago.
d0nnivain Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 You are about to become her family. If she is not making you a priority, I'd work on that before plunking down money on a wedding. Most deposits are not refundable. If you don't think you have her full attention now, wait until she starts wedding planning.
ExpatInItaly Posted November 11, 2013 Posted November 11, 2013 I've been with my fiance for 4 years now and we just got engaged this summer. I've been dying to tell her my thoughts about her social interactions with her friends or family. An example is whenever we go out to have a dinner or just the two of us hanging out she would text constantly, even in the car and I have to tell her to not drive and text. She won't even pick up her phone or even text me back if she was driving when i call or text, but makes an exception for her friends or family. I told her how I felt and she just said "I'm only doing this because she's been busy with her own stuff and I need to stop intruding". My feelings at this very moment is that she's stopped putting effort into our relationship after 4 years of an exclusive relationship. I don't know if I am going to marry the right women. Have you felt your partner stopped putting effort into a relationship and how did It start or even end? Oh, yes. I could feel him checking out and becoming more distant; for a few months in a row I felt I was the only one putting in an effort. We'd been together for almost 8 years. It was the beginning of the end for us, and it hurt like hell. Note my use of the past tense. We eventually ended it.
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